• madcaesar@lemmy.world
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    Nothing wrong at approaching somone you like, introducing yourself and asking them out.

    One tip… don’t use the words sexual harassment in the first sentance when meeting somone…

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      It’s not awesome to ask someone out when they’re working, but it’s not harassment unless it’s repeated.

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      Right, and while at work hahaha. Could you go up to anyone who looks less receptive? What is this comic, just ragebait?

      • RealFknNito@lemmy.world
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        I hope you just have a feminine sounding name and you’re not a real life woman with this opinion.

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            Garbage is definitely masculine and bagel is pretty neutral and taking into account everyone online is a guy, definitely a guy.

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              No, no, no. See, your typical garbage bag has some smush to it, and a bagel has a hole! If we put these facts together, we can surmise that OP 3.0 is actually an earthworm with one of its ends sewed shut!

              …I don’t know anything about an earthworm’s sex, so I’m going to go with it being a neutral.

      • Soulg@lemmy.world
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        No, it isn’t.

        If there was a frame of her saying no, but then he doesn’t leave her alone, then sure.

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            Depends on how you do it. The way it’s portrayed here is weird, because they use the “is it sexual harassment…” phrase and kinda belittle the problem of sexual harassment within society. Makes me think he’s an avid Andrew Tate fanboy. So it’d be an instant “thx goodbye” from me.

            But if you just take the rest… I don’t think it’s harassment if you drop an honest compliment and ask for someone’s number.

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            5 months ago

            Although the officer is “working” they are in public

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        Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.

        Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.

        There isn’t any nuance to this situation.

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    Probably the most pathetic cartoon I’ve ever been shown. Author needs real world experiences.

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        Harassment is continuing once being told “no.” There are a few frames missing from that comic for it to count as harassment.

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        It would seem the author is conflating sexual harassment with random flirting with women. It also sends the message that the author thinks it should be okay to flirt with random women as they go about their day/job, which is inappropriate, creepy, and annoying. He should probably try treating women like humans and develop a healthier sense of boundaries. He might have better luck.

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        Don’t flirt with people when they’re working. It’s gross and predatory because they’re basically a captive audience.

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    Unless I’m missing an entire frame, this seems extremely unreasonable, likely illegal, even if that guy is a douche.

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    I mean… maybe don’t get 2.5 inches away from her face while rubbing your chest up against her shoulder?

    Probably best not to club her on the head and drag her back to your cave either - at least, not without prior consent :-P.

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    I smiled at her by the photocopier. Now I’m facing chemical castration.

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        It’s a joke. You really put some research into a comment reply to a fucking joke comment. Bravo

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          That was a literal 1 minute internet search. I would not call that “research”, really… The standards are low enough as it is, so maybe let’s not drag them down any further.

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    Guys… its a fuckin joke… you’re reading into this comic too much

    • CrayonRosary@lemmy.world
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      Except it’s becoming what a lot of people want. Jokes that hit too close to the sad truth aren’t funny, or interesting, or anything.

      See? Right in these fucking comments. LMAO!

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        Again, the strip is a joke, and you and the person you are screen capping are taking it too seriously. Buddy hits on a cop terribly, buddy ends up in jail… thats the joke

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      Telling her she’s beautiful and asking for her phone number once is not sexual harassment. Continuing to do so after she has made it clear she isn’t interested is.

      However, it does look like he’s either looming over her or about to put his arm around her. That’s definitely not ok.

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        He is standing side-on to the officer, one hand presumably resting against some surface (a wall) and the other hand on his hip.

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          And is pretty uncomfortably close, for an initial unsolicited introduction

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          If you think that combination of body language and proximity is acceptable when speaking to someone for the first time you’re mistaken. It comes across as Intimidating. Respect people’s personal space.

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      Technically, no. However, when an officer is at their post in uniform, interfering with their work is a punishable offence.

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      The last two people who said no got downvoted to the negatives so I’ll say maybe and see if I can stay at 0.

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        I don’t seem to see that panel. I only see the one where he got instantly angry and called her names.

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          Actually it’s missing a lot of panels. She is interested and they date for 3 years before getting married. But then things turn sour after 4 more years, 2 kids, and both of them falling out of love, and she made up stories so that her colleagues ended up arresting him to gain an advantage in the custody battle. You can tell this from the way he’s holding his head in the last panel.