I can’t tell how much of my attraction to men is real and how much of it is rooted in making me feel more feminine by being bigger, taller and more manly than me.
This is so real. Im honestly totally confused about my sexuality but I guess it doesn’t matter and I can just do what feels right and hopefully I don’t end up in a serious relationship and then realize I’m gay.
The latter is so not worth it. “Comparative smallness” is kind of a bad bit honestly. Source: fucked around with a series of tall men, not that fun, dudes icky women pwetty
It’s a very common thing, I think it’s down to comphet and now you’re a woman and subject to that external and internalized pressure too. It’s not impossible to find out you’re bi or straight after transitioning (plenty of trans women dated women as beards before transitioning). You’re allowed to experiment!
I can’t tell how much of my attraction to men is real and how much of it is rooted in making me feel more feminine by being bigger, taller and more manly than me.![emoji madeline-stare madeline-stare](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/bcca6fa5-86fc-4c76-bddc-af0ba5789f73.png)
Clearly you need to experience a variety of increasingly large people of different genders to compare notes.
This is so real. Im honestly totally confused about my sexuality but I guess it doesn’t matter and I can just do what feels right and hopefully I don’t end up in a serious relationship and then realize I’m gay.
Honestly. If I wasn’t already confused about my sexuality, realizing I was trans threw quite a wrench into the whole thing.
The latter is so not worth it. “Comparative smallness” is kind of a bad bit honestly. Source: fucked around with a series of tall men, not that fun, dudes icky women pwetty![emoji bottom-speak bottom-speak](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/bd0e03e9-ee78-47b7-9296-af78f9158ce9.png)
True, why tall woman are superior
big fan of tall women
No wonder why “tall stronk lady” is such a popular archetype among transfemmes![emoji madeline-smug madeline-smug](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/9552a24e-1d3d-4698-b2fe-36200b4c5c59.png)
I’m the smol stronk enby
Need more rep for short doms, seriously![emoji mari-smug mari-smug](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/33d44119-8c68-478c-9178-20a06739173e.png)
I keep reading your name wrong. I’m not sure if my brain really wants it to be tomboy moder, as in mother in danish.
It’s moder like “boymoder”
“Tomboy mother” goes so fucking hard![emoji bridget-vibe bridget-vibe](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/d112f108-52b8-492a-a257-fb18559c4df6.gif)
no, I am not a mother of tomboys
Are you a Mother who is a Tomboy???
No!![emoji madeline-angry madeline-angry](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/09616e22-9a24-4a16-95e6-ab6f1863a63e.png)
Understandable![emoji madeline-stare madeline-stare](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/bcca6fa5-86fc-4c76-bddc-af0ba5789f73.png)
It’s a very common thing, I think it’s down to comphet and now you’re a woman and subject to that external and internalized pressure too. It’s not impossible to find out you’re bi or straight after transitioning (plenty of trans women dated women as beards before transitioning). You’re allowed to experiment!
I really don’t have any interest in dating men tbh (or anyone beside my gf for that matter)
gay
Meanwhile I like men even less than before and women more.