I like being a cuckold and I don’t understand the hate it gets.
- It gets me off.
- It gets my girlfriend off.
- It makes it easier for other guys to get laid.
- My girlfriend and I have more sex before and after a meetup because we’re both into it.
- It doesn’t do anything detrimental to my self-esteem because I understand my self-worth isn’t tied to monogamous sex - plus if it did, my girlfriend and I could stop any time.
Everyone should be able to do what they want to do so long as they follow the basic concepts of enthusiastic consent. And when people follow that, I don’t understand the hate
If you guts are okay with it, then please go on. It’s nobody’s business what is going on in you bedroom.
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I see your point. But I’m sure (at least I hope) that they are having long conversation with the Third person before the invitation.
Gosh I can’t even imagine how awkward it would be (and shitty) to just spring cuckolding on a third without talking to them about it first
“So, uh, Susan, uhm, well…who’s the guy jacking off in the closet there?”
I was invited to this situation once, before I even knew the word.
Did you do it?
I did not because the guy kept making excuses and asking me to describe what I’d do to his wife, instead of getting his wife involved.
Part of it I think it’s that you’re describing what the general population would call swinging or hotwifing. Cuckolding has an implied humiliation/non-consensual connotation in the public mind so that’s why it’s seen as derogatory. A cuck isn’t having fun, or might not even know it’s happening.
Husband is on-board and good communication? Not a cuck
Husband is seen as weak/humiliated, wife unilaterally controls it? Cuck
Whether these definitions are “correct” or not, that’s the public perception
I think being a cuck doesn’t mean not being on board, being a cuck usually means being a submissive part of the situation. It’s just used as a derogatory for being whipped but obviously being a sub in a relationship doesn’t mean your relationship is fake.
As an example, someone pressured into opening there relationship isn’t really a cuck. They are just whipped in an unhealthy relationship.
Op I love you you are stronger than any US marine
We thank OP for their service 🫡
I love you too and I would take a rubber bullet for you
Anybody who gives a shit what you do with consenting adults in the privacy of your bedroom doesn’t deserve your attention.
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This is the correct take. self-reflection, self-awareness, and self-honesty are key components to contentment in any facet of life. I often fantasize about eating cookies and ice cream every morning but I know I would be unhealthy and feel like ass. I’ll bet you though that there is a very small subset of people though who genuinely have biology compatible with eating a few tablespoons of ice cream for breakfast.
I had to look up what cuckold is, though honestly you do you. “Cuckold” sounds kind of derogatory, kind of like the N word.
As long as everyone on-board is consenting, I don’t see a problem.
The reason people use it as an insult is probably because it feels good to say. It’s so close to fuck and you know how we feel about that word.
If you decide to have kids, it puts a cloud over everyone whether the kid is legitimate.
We’re in the 21st century and we have DNA-tests Einstein.
Sure, that totally stops rumors. /s
I feel bad for you to care that much about how other people fuck without getting off from it.
It’s about how it harms others around them, dummy. Read my above comment.
Birth control + condoms + pulling out + taking a break from the kink if trying to get pregnant
Also discreet so minimal chance of rumors
If it’s discreet then why are you complaining of hate?
I’m not complaining, posting on unpopularopinion my unpopular opinion that it is fun and that I don’t understand the hate that does exist. I posted because I’m bored and I figured other subscribers to unpopularopinion would be entertained by my take
Who cares
The kid getting bullied.
Definitely an unpopular opinion lol
Ayo Sneako joined the Fediverse!
I’m js you should subscribe to the Creativity Kit is all
/s
It seems more of a porn thing than anything else.
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As an ending note I would just like to say Cuckolding is something I have absolutely no interest in. And I made clear to my SO decades ago I would immediately pack up and leave her if she ever mentioned wanting to try cuckolding, Hot Wifeing, or open marriage to me. On the other hand, we very much enjoy our swinger lifestyle. Or as called in the old days “Wife swapping: which is an activity we have equal partnership and pleasure participating in.
I found it interesting that Trump’s 2015 campaign and the use of the word “cuck” in a derogatory way seemed to happen in at the same time.
That being said, it sounds more like you’re a stag than a cuckold. And yeah, kink shaming was never cool. Always seems like it’s the people having less sex that kink shame idk.
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What does that even mean?
Cry harder