Yesterday I was at a restaurant with my friends. This Asian guy came in and sat near us. I noticed him speaking Korean on the phone. I consume a lot of Korean content, so this got me really excited. On a whim, I decided to go up to him and chat. I introduced myself, and he invited me to sit with him if I wanted to, even though he was a bit awkward, lol. He ordered some stuff for me. I found out he’s here in Switzerland for work, and we had a good talk. I ended up hanging out with him around the city. We exchanged contact info and are seeing each other again today after he gets off work. It was my first time doing something like this, and I honestly didn’t know meeting people could be so spontaneous and organic.


Huh. Well this is either a sad commentary on the world for young adults or the result of an incel pretending to be the horniest girl in Switzerland.
If you’re real your parents sheltered you far too much. Kinda explains the hyper sexuality though… Hmmm. Good luck on your adventure of self discovery Swiss girl from Archer. Check out Amsterdam. And university, this is how you’re going to make friends there.
I think people are misunderstanding what I said. To me, people you meet at school, work, or through shared interests (gym, clubs, activities, etc.) aren’t really “total strangers,” because you already have some common ground to start a conversation.
What about random workers at those places? People at restaurants? There really isn’t much different. Either way they don’t know you. The main difference is you don’t know what common ground to talk about and you solved that today with Kpop. Weather is the stereotypical place to start if you have nothing else.
You have a point.
You start most conversations with stangers here with a hand down your pants. Compared to that a conversation about the weather should be easy