It’s in the middle of three buttons that all feel the same so it’s not immediately apparent which is which without probing down to find out where the bottom button is so you can feel which is in the middle.

But this is off the subject of why my remote is behaving this way. Even if I use the play/pause button I still don’t have a way to ‘enter’ a selection

Just improve the keyboard. My Android phone swype was so much better

Sleep button on top please! I hate the current placement because I constantly take screen shots unless I juggle the phone and spread my fingers on the other side to straddle the volume knobs. It’s such a stupid design.