• schmidtster@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    My god, is every word going to get canceled eventually?

    When did using the term male and female become problematic?

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      9 months ago

      It became problematic when misogynists began using the term female as a way to dehumanize women. These men feel the need to blame all of their problems on women while simultaneously believing that a woman will also solve all their problems. It’s an easy outlet to channel their rage while accepting zero responsibility for their own actions.

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        9 months ago

        News flash, every word is going to be used for that. You have use context and intent in every interaction, don’t try to change other people just to make your life easier from a couple bad eggs. Yeesh.

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          9 months ago

          don’t try to change other people just to make your life easier.

          Isn’t that what you’re trying to do right now?

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            9 months ago

            Pointing something out isn’t trying to change other people, but okay.

            But it’s good to know there is a new red flag to look out for in interactions with women. Is that word okay? Misogynists use that too, which term is acceptable in this exchange? Nah I’m leaving this lol.

            This is gonna have the Streisand effect, trying to pick the term you want is only going to fuel the wrong ones. It’s why it hasn’t taken off and why very few people know or even care. It’s hilarious that it’s a thing.

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                9 months ago

                An op-ed on an extremely biased site means nothing to the general public. And is a far cry from being an “article” that should be taken seriously.

                People use those sources in closed groups to validate each others biased opinions.

                It’s a few people making a mountain out of a peanut.

                I stand by my yeesh.

                When I googled it, I found nothing but similar op-Ed’s. This isn’t a thing.

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                  9 months ago

                  It’s mainly a problem when it’s the only pronoun they use for women. There are plenty of incel type dudes who only use females when referring to women. There is appropriate context when utilizing female, but it’s typically used to delineate the sex of an animal, whether human or otherwise.

                  The reason they only utilize females is because it objectifies a person down to their sexual reproduction capabilities. Which within incel ideology makes women second class citizens.

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              9 months ago

              It’s funny to me because I didn’t make the initial comment. I did reply, to offer an opinion, as did another… however you chose only reply to the one person with “girl” in their name.

              Editing to add that I see you did make another comment below, so I’ll leave my original comment even though I am now mistaken in my reply!

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                What’s even funnier is, I replied to the parent comment and you responded to that one… and are now accusing me of only responded to a girl name, when that’s not even remotely the case.

                Fuckin red flags every holy shit lmfao. Keep telling people to not use “females” so we can avoid interaction with people like you.

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                  8 months ago

                  Well you convinced me. There are absolutely incels that when told some women don’t like this, they actively choose to defend it at all costs. Fascinating! Keep up the good fight. Show those women who’s boss!! Defend your masculinity or the English language or whatever it is you’re trying to do

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                    8 months ago

                    Ah yes. I’m an incel for pointing out that a person accusing me of responding to them actually responded to me first….

                    Fucking lmfao. Not everyone is an incel because they have a different opinion, and that’s not even what the word is used for.

                    The amount of feminists parading around their red flags is awesome. But yes, the males are the ones to blame here fucking lmfao…

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      At least 10 or 15 years ago was when I first got informed about it. It’s likely been problematic for much longer. Its really not that hard to use the word “women” instead. Usually when people refer to men they use the word “men”, so it’s only fair to use women also. Females feels a bit icky tbf. Like women are a different species or something.

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        The term women is used in derogatory ways by misogynists too. No word is safe. Yeesh.

        Trying to change this is only going to make it worse, Streisand effect kind of thing.

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          Dude you have a dozen people saying “use a different word” and you just keep fighting back that you want to keep using it and they’re wrong.

          Go ahead buddy, keep using “females.” I can guarantee they won’t be using you.

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          I was just giving you some context. It isn’t some new complaint that’s just popped up. It’s also not a huge deal. You do you if you want to keep using the word “females” instead of women.

          Re: the Streisand effect. Anyone getting excited that they’ve found a new “trigger” and choosing to use it despite someone else calmly suggesting that a different word is better isn’t really worth any consideration.