• SatanicNotMessianic@lemmy.ml
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    Just a reminder for when you listen to people being presented as trans persons who regret their surgery:

    Norma McCorvey - Jane Roe of Roe v Wade - was presented for decades as a devout Christian (evangelical and later Catholic) who regretted her decision. She was used as a prominent voice in the anti-abortion movement and in the attempts to overturn Roe.

    She revealed on her deathbed that she was being paid to take that position. The narrative was also complicated by her 35 year relationship with Connie Gonzalez, later claiming that she was no longer a lesbian before confessing that she was paid to say that as well.

    Also remember that when they call the child survivors of school shootings “paid actors,” it’s because that’s exactly the tactic they engage in.

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    Even if they’d been right - it’s not a justification for taking away peoples’ right to choose. I’ve made many decisions in my life that I regretted afterward, some irrevocable. (And at least one that I’m certain has a far greater than average regret rate) That’s NOT basis for making it illegal for me to make those decisions, and it’s for sure not justification for making it illegal for others to make those decisions.

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      Not to mention the last statistic on regret rates I saw showed that a lower percentage of people regretted transition surgery than regretted things like hip or knee replacement. But of course to them literally anyone who regrets transition is cause to ban it.

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        Globally, a staggering 310 million major surgeries are performed each year; around 40 to 50 million in USA and 20 million in Europe. It is estimated that 1–4% of these patients will die, up to 15% will have serious postoperative morbidity, and 5–15% will be readmitted within 30 days. Source.

        Yeah, when you look at the statistics for all surgeries and see that up to 4% of patients will die, and up to 15% will have serious complications, all of a sudden the regret rate seems pretty average.

        I can’t recall where I read this, but I’ve also heard that a big part of it is regret when the surgeon does a bad job too. I think it was mainly top surgery, and surgeons that were trained to do mastectomies for cancer patients, who leave a bunch of loose skin bc that’s desirable when the patient wants breast augmentation. Which obviously isn’t what a trans person would want. Or just not removing all of the breast tissue, more severe scarring than average, etc. I bet these are the people conservatives quote about feeling “disfigured”.

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          I hear so many horror stories from trans masc people in particular who are just not fucking listened to by surgeons. With traumatic consequences, frequently. It makes me furious - every time it’s a similar story, they explain that they want no breasts and the doctor goes “well that would look odd, I’ll give you a c cup”… Bruh no.

          I don’t think it’s so bad for transfemmes, because “top surgery” in that case is the same (I mean, I assume) as a breast augmentation for a cis woman.

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            I don’t think it’s so bad for transfemmes, because “top surgery” in that case is the same (I mean, I assume) as a breast augmentation for a cis woman.

            Bottom surgery is traditionally oriented around male pleasure at the expense of what trans women actually want. The same thing happens to us, and it happens to our genitals

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        Actual people regretting it is irrelevant and inconsequential. Remember how, for many years, the same people kept trying (and failing) to find any significant voter fraud? Then they decided to just ignore that detail and tell people it was happening anyway?

        The exact same thing applies here.

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      You’re missing the point. They regret when people choose gender-affirming surgery. That’s the real issue. I know it’s not the argument they’re saying out loud, but it’s the real issue.

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      I’m not trans, but I wholeheartedly agree with you. As living beings we deserve autonomy, which includes the right to make choices that we may later regret. It isn’t up to anyone else but the individual to decide what’s right for them. It’s no-one else’s business (especially the government)

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    I wonder what the regret rate is for getting married? Having kids? Having conservative parents?

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    Reminder that the regret rate for gender reassignment surgery is under 1%. For comparison, the regret rate for knee surgery is 20%.

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      I was going to say, it’s been known for a long time that it’s around 1%, this isn’t new information, and while we should take seriously the issues of de-trans (not anti-trans) people and what about the process caused them issues, ~1% regret rate is impressively low for something like this.

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      thats the overall average, iirc things like top surgery (boobs and flattening) is something like .4% regret rate, and highest regret rate is phalloplasty at 2%. i think there were some extra criteria asking about complications which had like a 10% rate in most cases. so not even most people with complications regret it.

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    What conservatives say rarely aligns with reality in any way, so this should come as no surprise.

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    Conservatives regret it. Not the people having them. Poorly written headline. /S

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      Same old intellectually lazy right-wing bullshit: Take an isolated example or two and apply it to an entire population.

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      Buyers remorse is a thing too. Better outlaw purchases of anything outside of the essentials to live. Those can also cause buyers remorse. Guess we’re just outlawing all purchases.

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      Ah to be in that audience and having all the facts… So you’re saying that any elective surgery with a high rate of regret should be banned for the safety of the patients? That’s fantastic, thank you for advocating against the horrors of cosmetic surgery simply in the name of beauty and fashion, I’m sure your followers will appreciate your courage in speaking out against them!

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          Yes it does… what’s your point? I’m pretty sure I understand the sarcasm of the previous poster, it’s what my comment was based on. And I’m also pretty sure I understand that Chloe Cole and other conservatives have no comprehension of how transgender surgery differs greatly from their own cosmetic surgeries and probably can’t even understand why one is usually bad while the other is usually good.

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    The only one I regret is orchi and thats because I could have made OnlyFans money cosplaying as a femboy for the cishet male simps. sigh

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    It’s so ironic bc the “regret the surgery” narrative depends on body dysphoria being a thing.

    I mean wouldn’t it just be fucking awful if your body didn’t match your gender?

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    Great to have another study backing trans people. However, I have a feeling that the author of the linked article only read the abstract? At least it seems as if they don’t provide any additional information in the text. Like, how extensive was the search of the study and how many people did it include? I couldn’t access the paper itself, maybe someone knows how?

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      The claim of the study is that less than 1% do, contrary to conservative/TERF claims of a large ever growing wave of regret.