Says the one who doesn’t eat at all 😭

I’m tempted to try this. Especially because 68kg is literally my weight. I could gain a couple of kilos…

      • applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        5·
        10 days ago

        oh i heard about a surgery for narrower shoulders. its called clavicle shortening. theres a limit to what they can do, i forget how much, but its cool that its possible. not sure id get that one personally.

        ive thought about getting the ribcage remodeling but neither method seems great to me, either the rib removal (potentially serious breathing issues) or the breaking method (requires a corset for months and might just go back to normal after). maybe after another year or two of hormones to see what i get.

        • Mistiy@lemmy.zip
          5·
          10 days ago

          I’m pretty sure the last time I looked that surgery up the complication rate was huge and it’s only like a centimeter or so they can do at most

          • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
            2·
            10 days ago

            You’re right. It’s definitely not one of the super-safe surgeries. The shoulders would probably be locked into a “forward” stance forever and it might have an effect on mobility…

            I’m pretty sure they do a couple of inches on each side tho…so not a lot, but a noticeable difference.

            If after years of HRT my hips don’t balance out my broad shoulders, I’m probably getting it.

          • applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
            1·
            10 days ago

            yeah sounds like its not great. i dont think i would do it myself but im not really dysphoric about my shoulders. might be worth it for somebody though 🤷‍♀️

        • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          4·
          10 days ago

          I’m still considering ribs. I mean…I know I’m supposed to try and accept myself the way I am, but sometimes I just look in the mirror, see my bone structure and think: “God, if it weren’t for T puberty…I could have been really pretty.”

          And it hurts. Not as much as before, it’s not the crushing existential dread that it used to be, but it’s still a shame.

      • applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        2·
        10 days ago

        sadly exercise alone wont give me the snatched waist of my dreams. abs/flat tummy are made in the kitchen :/ which means controlling my diet and a caloric restriction.

    • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      6·
      11 days ago

      sigh
      I guess I’ll start eating two avocados a day then, again. What can you do? 😆

      I’m gonna be so fat soon, omg I barely even move 😭
      But…if at least some of it goes to the right places…it’ll be worth it.

  • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    4·
    10 days ago

    Jealous… meanwhile both my boobs and my ass are growing way too slowly for my taste!

    i do have a bit of butt though but hmmngng

  • Ribbons@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    2·
    10 days ago

    We’ve maybe gone from ~105lb/47kg to ~115lb/52kg (haven’t weighed ourselves in a while) and have been quite happy with gaining a noticeable amount around the waist, a tiny tiny bit in the chest but nothing that would stand out over anything but a tight top. All-in-all, food good and every bit of fat helps in our case! - Phoebe (it/its)

  • TheGingerNut@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    1·
    10 days ago

    Lobster too buttery

    Like that’s not what you were hoping for but that’s still a win in my book

    I’ve been playing this game where I lose a bunch of weight before I start HRT then put it all back on and this time its in cooler places. I started HRT last week but I forgot to end the diet. Oh well.

    • Lim-Lim@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      1·
      2 days ago

      I’ve heard from some transfems who tried this that in the beginning of the HRT the fat goes to the places where it goes in a male body, so don’t expect nice results with this strategy very soon.

      This trans baby that I am does not know when the fats will begin accumulating in the correct places, though, so cannot unfortunately help you with that. But eventually they will!

      • TheGingerNut@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        2·
        1 day ago

        Thanks for the warning. Though yeah, considering they like to titrate you with a low dose to start with that tracks. Probably not even worth trying until they up the dosage

      • TheGingerNut@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        2·
        8 days ago

        No, no. I just live in one of those silly countries where getting on HRT takes months and costs hundreds. I knew I’d be starting at some point for the past year ish