I keep getting disapproval from folks because I’m refusing to pick a new name and my current one is very male. Oh and people who’re otherwise very supportive pivoting to assuming I’m a she/they enbie that just doesn’t know all the lingo.

I have to be like, “Yes I know what non-binary means, and just because I don’t dress super femininely or want to change my name to Branwen or some shit, doesn’t make me one.”