• TWeaK@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    Money might not buy happiness, but it sure as hell solves a lot of problems that make people unhappy.

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      The question is whether someone has “enough” money. Until you can live comfortably, more money DOES buy more happiness. Once someone can comfortably live and engage with interests, more money doesn’t buy more happiness.

      When someone says, “money doesn’t buy happiness.” what they’re actually saying is they have enough money and they do not understand how poverty works.

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        A billionaire doesn’t buy billion times as much clothes or food more than a comfortable middle class person.

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        Well, as a society we could solve the problem with money. We’re all too happy to print more money for people who already have lots of it, why not do so for people who don’t?

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          Because overtime, ppl that already have a lot will get all the money from the poor again cause they can make money from our necessities. Is necessary to give money to the poor in the short therm, but it does not fix the issue.

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            Sure, but if we’re constantly shuffling the deck, then won’t more people get opportunity to be successful?

            People blame a lot of problems on capitalism (or communism, or whatever), but really these are just neutral systems. The problem is people.

            People are irrational and selfish. Once their core needs are met, their desire to want things becomes overriding - but they treat it like a need. We need to win, otherwise we feel bad and feel worthless, even if we’re doing pretty ok objectively. Capitalism allows people to pursue these wins, but it doesn’t do enough to curtail people after they win what they need, and then make them work harder for the things they want.

            With capitalism, the big con is value exchange. You want to pay as little as possible, or at its core put in as little effort as possible, but at the same time you want to sell your output for as much as possible. So, in order to game the system, people lie about value. An employer pays their workers a pittance, but then sells their output as a luxury. A trader haggles down the sale price of what they buy, then inflates the price of what they sell. The price is never actually truly representative of work (which can ultimately be defined in time, ie 'man hours) but instead is controlled by what the buyer is willing to pay.

            These systems aren’t inherently wrong, they just assume that people will always play by certain rules. They don’t account for people figuring out the rules and trying to beat them.

            If the system resets every so often then this can help mitigate people gaming the system. It won’t stop people from playing the game, but it will give new players a chance, while incumbants have to stop dragging their feet.

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              Systems function vastly differently. Social structure directs values, opportunities, and relationships. Denying the differences of systems, and asserting human behavior as inflexible and prescribed, is simply obstructing meaningful possibilities for change.

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                Denying the differences of systems, and asserting human behavior as inflexible and prescribed

                That’s not what I’ve said, at all. I didn’t say any system wasn’t different, I just said that none of them have addressed the real problem. Also, I in no way said that human behaviour is inflexible and prescribed; the point I’m making is that people are flexible, and that these systems do not adequately account for that ingenuity when it is applied maliciously.

                Social structure directs values, opportunities, and relationships.

                If anything, you are implying that human behaviour is prescribed here. I think it is more accurate to say that social structure influences people. It doesn’t direct them, any more than a lone person with a stick can herd a sheep.

                Shuffling up the system influences people to work harder when they grow complacent, and simultaneously gives those who have little a better chance to build something greater. It’s not a perfect solution, but it’s better than the status quo, and encourages further change.

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                  You seem to be framing argument around the premise that the driving force behind human behavior is seeking to harm others for fulfilling selfish ends, transcending personal experience and social environment.

                  I am challenging your underlying premise, as collapsing harmful outcomes into a singular cause, not strongly substantiated or thoughtfully conceived.

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        To some degree money is creating problems and obstructing solutions, but as long as our society is based on money, it is necessary to antagonize wealth consolidation and to support universal income.

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    Money doesn’t buy happiness.

    What it does is eliminate and prevent most causes of human unhappiness, and practically all unhappiness based in meeting basic human needs.

    And I’m sorry, but daddy not being proud of you or mommy dying young when you have means doesn’t equate to the misery of rooting through a dumpster out of hunger or having a pig kick you out of an underpass into the rain to die of exposure.

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      I think this assumes there is some universal scale for suffering though – Like, if you aren’t physically tortured (or whatever you think worse suffering than you’ve had would be) does that mean you suffer internally less than those that have?

      I feel it’s more some internal scale created on your experiences. I wonder if there’s any studies on people suffering objectively vs subjectively.

      E: Here’s an old thread discussing this

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      True. Money doesn’t buy happiness, but being broke causes the sad.

      I can say my overall mood radically improved when I got a good salary.

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        For me you’re not quite right.

        I own a nice house with a big garden and a decent car. And whilst I’m happy that I don’t have to spend money on subsidising a landlord or have to rely on public transport it’s not the owning of the assets that bring me joy within itself.

        I’m at the point where a bigger house or a better car would absolutely not make me happier, they might be nice, but that’s it.

        Money only brings happiness as much as it can reduce the causes of stress in your life. Thinking “when I can buy that, I’ll finally be happy” is a dangerous mindset, because unless you’re Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos, there’s always going to be someone that has bigger and better things than you.

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        Having what you want is nice, but it doesn’t replace connection.

        I say, this as someone who can’t afford what they want and sometimes even need. Having enough money is the hardest checkbox to happiness, but material possession alone isn’t the only ingredient unless you’re truly a clinical sociopath.

        The joy of stuff is incredibly fleeting.

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    I used to be on medication for depression until I got a high-paying job. Turns out being poor was the root to most problems in my life.

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        Is that the Terry Pratchett boot thing? I’ll be disappointed if that isn’t mentioned.

        Edit: There we go:

        Chapters:

        • 00:00 - Intro
        • 01:50 - The Boots Theory Of Economic Unfairness
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      Same friend! Constant panic attacks that send me to the ER which would leave me with a giant bill. Making 3x my former income and life is good and got off all the meds. Money solves a shitload of problems.

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        Actually not sarcasm. I literally was on medication and then I got a good job and I don’t need it anymore. I’m mildly sure I still have depression but I’m much happier in my life and nowhere near risk of self-harm anymore.

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      “To live is to suffer; to survive is to find some meaning in that suffering.”

      That said: It takes a good deal of money to fund any search, especially enough time to actually contemplate meaning… Thus, money, to some extent or another, is necessary to truly survive - and the extent of that money greatly contributes to the extent of survival. It does not guarantee survival - but it is required to have the opportunity.

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      Since money of course is just the means of exchange, having it prevents the suffering resulting from deprivation being imposed.

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    I grew up dirt poor. It wasn’t until I worked my way into a better career and now make decent money. Let me yell you, having enough money to cover bills and eat healthier does solve most problems.

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        Probably my father who had everything handed to him in his (still objectively shitty) upbringing before kicking me out with nothing and expecting me to flourish because it’s apparently just a matter of putting in some elbow grease.

        I’ll just do that with the lack of knowledge they provided me and the lack of skills that the education system gave me.

        Thank heavens I’ve met tons of understanding people that provided me the tools and support I needed to uplift myself without money. I can be much more productive to society and the people I love and care about within without having to worry about garbage like money or failing; I can keep getting back up and learn from my mistakes without suddenly going homeless one day.

        But no, I was just “lazy”. Still apparently am.

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          It is almost as if everyone’s successes or failures are formed in and dependent on the framework of the world around them.

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    Not having enough money makes you unhappy, but money does not make you happy.

    There’s a study done a while ago that said something to the effect of: you need at least 100k (USD) per year. Up until then, the money increases your ability to be happy. But after that point, it doesn’t make you any more happy.

    Happiness comes from being able to take care of your body, mind, and spirit (spirit not in the religious sense, but in a feeling of having purpose and understanding oneself).

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    I think the amount of improvement to your life, money brings is on a logarithmic curve. The more you have the less it matters. So it seems logical to take from those where the impact on life is least and give some of it to those it matters most

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    I would love to see more intelligent conversation around this topic.

    There’s absolutely rock solid research that money contributes happiness to a point (I think it’s $75k household income per year, but that’s likely outdated now).

    Beyond that, it’s not a key differentiator. People take the second half and generalize it, which is incorrect.

    Change the narrative. Once people are paid a fair living wage, incremental happiness comes primarily from other places. But until that point, money absolutely brings happiness.

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      Excess money may not buy happiness, but lack of money causes a lot of unhappiness.

      The study you’re referring to was basically that. There has been some follow-up, including https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2016976118 that suggests any plateau, if one exists, is more like $400-500k. The latter study used continuous sampling via https://go.trackyourhappiness.org, where the former did retrospective, daily, binary sampling, so they’re not exactly comparable. i.e.: if you ask someone 6 times a day to rate their happiness 1-10 right then, you’re going to get different results than if you ask them whether yesterday was a good day.

      There’s a whole weird thing people do where they can be quite satisfied with their life at any particular moment, but dissatisfied when asked about their life overall. I suspect that the $75k plateau is more of the latter, where the lack of plateau is more of the former.

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    “Money doesn’t buy happiness” was first coined when people could afford a house with an average income. We’re starving and that one time our grandparents over-ate at a buffet is being shoved down our throats.

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            That would have been such a great answer. Unfortunately my previous statement was just taken too literally and I got referred to ebt 🙃

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          Snap/ebt, local food and clothes closets, WIC, feeding america has a lot of helpful links, a lof christian churches have a shared meal on sundays that are open to anyone.

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            It was a metaphorical starving Jake, we’re not really being punished for the time our grandparents went to a buffet. Thank you for your sincerity though god bless.

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    Money doesn’t buy happiness but it does remove money related stress.

    Regardless everyone should be paid a fair wage and in an ideal world money should not be a concern for day to day life.

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      Idk man, money would make me real happy rn. I resigned from my job a month ago cuz they wasn’t paying my salaries on time and I still haven’t been paid for the last two months. I’m really unhappy right now.

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      Yep; money is necessary but not sufficient for happiness. It also removes very common cause of unhappiness (financial stress). But it can’t unconditionally make someone happy.

      Source: I have money but am miserably depressed.

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      This is exactly it. It doesn’t really buy happiness to a large degree, but it does remove so many problems and worries that you get to spend time on your happiness.

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    This has been studied pretty extensively and it turns out that money definitely does buy happiness, but only to a certain point after which you get diminishing returns and eventually no increase in happiness.

    It’s been awhile since I’ve looked at the literature, but if memory serves, most people max out on happiness with an upper middle-class income, so probably 3-4 hundred thousand/year for a couple in the US. After that you don’t get any increase in happiness and are actually better off giving any extra money to charities and/or sharing with friends and family.

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        That’s totally believable. I don’t claim any expertise in this matter and would never claim to be anything even remotely like an economist.

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        Daniel Kahneman is useful to neoliberals. 75k would allow me to live very comfortably. 500k I would want for literally nothing ever again.

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          You get to a point where basic needs and standard luxuries don’t move the needle and all the things you can’t afford are just exponentially more expensive. This phase literally never ends. There are things Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk desire that they cannot afford. But even if you are making like 200k or so, “normal” living cost quickly become trivial, and it becomes about how much you have for crazy vacations and home upgrades. But you can be perfectly happy “just” getting a high end item and not a super lux item if you are a well adjusted person

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            You also have to understand they grew up differently and see life differently. Not that it couldn’t happen to me, but when I say money can buy happiness I do not believe buying those luxuries is not happiness. Thats why I argue the 70k a year income is more likely than 100k, or 500k.

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      Also more equal societies tend to be happier and healthier. Reducing overall wealth and income inequality is a net gain for everyone.