So I (22F) am dating Aiko. I have been for about 4 years. We are also engaged and have been for about 10 months. When I moved near my online friend Beth to the USA, I met her friend since high school Will. We really got along and now we’re dating, have been for 3 months, almost 4.

Well, Will (23NB, he/they BTW so people don’t think I’m misgendering him) is really hung up on this guy he’s also dating, Dave (26M). He started dating him about 2 months ago. They do a lot of things together, such as having sleepovers every week and sleeping on calls and such when they aren’t having sleepovers. They play video games together. They do a lot of stuff together. I can tell Dave means a lot to Will.

Recently, Dave has supposedly been going through a hard time and while Will does a lot more with Dave, he is still romantic with me and I care a lot about him as my partner. Well, Dave says he is depressed and losing interest in everything, but Will thought he didn’t mean him. Will suggested they play a game (I don’t know what, but a new release of a game) together and here Dave is, not responding to Will’s messages and playing the same game he agreed they’d play together.

They stopped having sleepovers and calling as much due to Dave’s depression and being busy and I will not stand for the fact that he made my boyfriend Will cry. What the hell!?

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    12 hours ago

    “Communicate!” Well, Dave won’t because he is “busy” supposedly

    “They should break up!” I can’t make him do anything, Will knows the red flags 🚩 but he doesn’t wanna break up. He really loves this guy