I’ve never had a WFH job and I generally don’t think I’d personally want/be successful with one. My sister is fully remote and she actually hates it, but I think its more the job she doesn’t like than the WFH aspect. She says its lonely and isolating on top of disliking her daily tasks. I’m not anti WFH for others at all, to absolutely clear.
There are a multitude of reason why I like it.
The most important is that I am not wasting an hour and change commuting. I don’t need to worry about train schedules. Commuting by car would have been worse: I’d spend hundreds of euros on gas and tolls, never mind parking. I also don’t have a bunch of dead time I cannot really take advantage of. Sure, some of it I could use to read in public transport, or listen to podcasts, but there is a limit. I am prone to motion sickness, so there are limits to when I can do it and for how long. And during peak hours? The experience of getting on a train is, sometimes, not great. Too many people, too hot. As much as I love public mass transport, the experience during peak hours is miserable.
The other thing about WFH, in my current setup, is that… I can just step away? I have gone to a friends house to give them and/or deliver something during work hours because I just have enough time. I have driven parents for appointments because it was quick enough, or I could just take my work laptop with me and work from the car. I have worked from another country entirely, and the biggest difference was the timezone. And if I really want to, I can visit a teammate and work from his house instead!
There are few other reasons why work from home is great, though they are not that important in the grand scheme of things. In the places I have worked, we have had open spaces. This means noise. Others might need to be on a call, or you might need to be on a call. It means that multiple people in the same call is now an exercise in mute discipline so you don’t distract others hearing themselves through your microphone. It also means I cannot just pace around while on a chat, which I sometimes do thanks to the wireless headphones I invested in. Actually, it means I need to use my headphones much more because if I want music, I need them on, whereas at home I can just use speakers instead?
We do get togethers once a month, though I don’t go to all of them. We also are relatively liberal with audio chats for not so serious subjects. I don’t feel lonely for two reasons: I just deal well with calls and other such ways of interacting with people; and I can use the extra time I don’t commute to actually go out with people I like after work.
Feb 16 2020 was the last day I stepped into an office. The first person to die of COVID in the USA was not far from my office and HR sent everyone home.
At the time, I had a 1 year old son and watched his first steps over a small phone screen. Listen to him say his first word though my headset at work. I fucking hated it.
After COVID, I watched my son grow up and experience everything. From the highs and lows. I love it.
The major downside is that WFH jobs are very few and I had to quit multiple jobs because of RTO policies. Today, I opened a business and just work as a contractor. Even though I don’t make as much, I wouldn’t change it for the world.
You know those times at the office where things are slow so you walk the hallway or bullshit with colleagues or make a coffee run or spin in your chair?
You know what I’m doing during those times? Petting my dog. Making a sandwich. Pooping on my own toilet with three ply TP.
Different people like different things, I suppose. I don’t miss the commute or the bullshit, but I do miss interacting with colleagues. And I’m pretty sure I haven’t been promoted because I don’t have enough face time with the bosses. All that to say I am mixed on it.
I am like her, but I hate the commute and that my dogs are lonely. Some workplaces do work-from-home well, and most don’t. So that may be part of her problem. Seems to work best at companies where they started and continue to be remote-only.
I’m 100% remote and while I miss hybrid I wouldn’t change anything. Less wear and tear on my vehicle and significant less money being spent on gas is great. But most of all not having to commute.
Yes. I had a hybrid position pre COVID that was 2/3 days a week home at alternating weeks, due to a lack of available desks in our office building. That was always nice when I worked from home. I enjoyed doing laundry during the day and being able to stop work and immediately get to switch off, as opposed to the days in office where I’d deal with driving home and traffic.
I switched to a fully in office job when Covid hit, and our office when fully remote. Other than training and onboarding, I haven’t been required in office since. I love remote work. I won’t go back unless I have absolutely no other choice
Nope, I am an IT guy, I live alone in my two room apartment, and I just can’t focus on work when I am working at home.
Sometimes I have to, but it sucks
Yes. Im way more efficient at home. Less offfice bullshit.
No commute or shitty weather.
Roll out of bed and online in seconds, just open the laptop lid, leave it in suspend.
My food and can cook a proper meal.
Also can throw on a wash or whatever during the day.
Being home when my packages get delivered is also a nice bonus too! And where I live, I have to deal with a lot of snow. Normally this would be a pain in the ass, but when you work from home, you get to it when you feel like it.
Through the comments so far the lack of commute would be the biggest plus for me personally. I work in a power plant about 35 mins from my house. So, no matter the weather I absolutely need to be in, sometimes that has meant sleeping there.
People who socialize in the office hate wfh
People who socialize outside of the office love wfh
People who don’t socialise at all also love wfh
Thats pretty fair.
I socialize quite a lot at both but work is a non-issue for me as long as I perform on my half assed level of half assed halfassery.
Yeah it more applies to people who actually get their primary socialization time at work
A lot of people have social lives that are dominated by work relationships from being regular friends to hanging out after work and such
So wfh for them is basically just isolation because they never had to socialize for themselves, school and then work provided it by necessity and proximity
I love it and I’m never going back.
- I save myself the commute (time, gas).
- In closer to my son’s daycare, so it’s easier to pick him up of something spontaneously comes up.
- I’m near my dog throughout the day.
- I have the fridge close to me. ;-)
- I can do the laundry or start the vacuum robot at convenient times.
- I have less interruptions by blergh people.
- I don’t have to sit with my back towards the office door, which in turn was adjacent to the men’s room.
- I can wear casual legwear.
- Better coffee.
- My three person office at work is empty anyway, because my colleagues commuted from further apart and are happy about WFH as well. So my options are a) sit alone in my office at home or b) sit alone in my office at work.
- I’m here for deliveries throughout the day.
- I don’t have that loneliness/isolation issue going, but I do see that it’s wildly different among people; some are made for WFH and some need the office to be happy.
EDIT to add, because it’s an important factor and I read it in the answers:
- shitting on your own toilet, with proper toilet tissue, even through remote meetings.
I never thought of the toilet thing but thats so fucking true!
I would add the ability to use a bidet. Travel bidets exist, but the ideal just feels gross and embarrassing.
Working from home: Bidet yaaaay
Office: I bring my own toilet tissue because every bathroom is a nightmare
Your own toilet and good toilet paper instead of the cheapest waxy one-ply 🙏 your own control over the AC/heat instead of freezing/sweating 🙏 never having to smell someone heating up fish in the microwave 🙏
I’m 100% remote and love it
There’s no bidet at work
For anyone who has to go in to work and suffer without a bidet, I find this worked well:
Phenomenal points.
Fully remote for years now and never want an on-site job again. I don’t mind going for a couple of events a year, though.
I can take my “smoke break” to change loads of laundry or do something else around the house. I have no commute time nor expenses. I am always here for deliveries. I regained so much of my time that I can use for study or entertainment. (Assuming a 1-hour commute, even if most of that is on a train, that’s 10 hours a week back from that alone).
For success, your company and you need to have good communication and planning. It’s also not for everyone, especially more social people.
I’d say not having to commute is a huge benefit of WFH, but it has some pitfalls that can negatively impact your work performance depending on what you do.
I’ve been WFH since 2020, and it’s working well for me.
There are some obvious benefits such as not having a commute, being able to do laundry during breaks and always being there when a package arrives.
Some maybe less obvious advantages I personally enjoy is being able to eat whenever, meaning a quick snack but also my lunch, and wearing less appealing but way more comfortable clothes.
Oh, and shitting in my own toilet. While getting paid for it. Definitely that.
I’m not gonna dismiss the potential challenges, though. It works well for me because I don’t mind being alone and I’m lucky to have a spare room to use as an office. Without those two factors it could easily enter suck territory.
Not having to wear my work uniform would be sweet as hell.
Unquestionably yes. My coffee doesn’t taste like shit, and my PJs are far more comfortable than any office attire imaginable.




