• acceptable_pumpkin@lemmy.world
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    That’s such a sad argument. I heard a great counter to that line. Imagine we discovered a cure for cancer. This line of reasoning would say “well my mom suffered and died of cancer so why should others get a cure?”

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      Cancer is mostly random. Going into debt for school is a choice.

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        A choice typically made by 17 year old kids after having spent their entire life having it drummed into them that college is the correct step to take after school

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          Also 17 year old kids, the vast majority of which have never taken on significant debt and have no frame of reference for the scale of obligation they’re taking on.

          It blows my mind that we look at an 17 year old and, as a government, we say, “Alcohol? Too young and immature. Handguns? Too young and immature. Tobacco products? Too young and immature. Voting? Too young and immature. Enlisting in the military or want to take on 5 or 6 figures of debt that will drive your major life decisions for the next few decades? Sign here.”

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        What causes you to go to school? Generally a hope to fulfill your basic survival functions these days, like eating, safety, and temperature regulation. Are those needs choices?

        And what causes having those needs? Being born. Was that one’s own choice either?

        I think this argument won’t work well on those who came of age when a highschool degree would cut it, but it is logically rather sound based on present realities.

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          I’m a younger millennial and went to school and got a degree. No debt. It’s a choice.

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            That is quite a selfish viewpoint. Perhaps reconsider what you mean. Are you really stating that all people should have the same fate as you regardless of their starting conditions?

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              No. But lots of people are bad financially and get themselves into too much debt without a way out and I don’t think I should be responsible for bailing them out.

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                  You can always tell when people run out of arguments when people respond to reasonable comments with “OMG I CANT EVEN”

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                  I seem to have struck a nerve, you must be one of the people I’m talking about.

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                A 17 year old kid is forced into taking on debt to attend college with, at the time they agree to it, no way of paying it off. It’s a gamble any which way you slice it. And they have no frame of reference to understand the decision they’re making.

                The school isn’t on the hook to ensure they get gainful employment that would pay them enough to manage that debt. The loan servicer isn’t either. Only the kid is going to be held to anything, yet the shitty take is always, “They knew what they were signing up for, so fuck em. I want them to suffer for their bad decision.”

                With all sincerity, I hope you encounter misfortune through no fault of your own that ruins your financial security for the next 20 years.

                Maybe that’ll teach you a little empathy.

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                  No one is forced to go to college. And they definitely aren’t forced to attend 50k+/year universities.

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                  A 17 year old kid is forced into taking on debt to attend college

                  No they’re not! No is forced to go to college, and no is forced to go into debt to do it! Those are both choices they made! The premise of your whole argument is not true!

                  With all sincerity, I hope you encounter misfortune through no fault of your own that ruins your financial security for the next 20 years.

                  Unlikely, I plan ahead and don’t make stupid financial decisions.

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                    This shit is bad for society, and by extension you. Loan services and schools suck up vast wealth that… goes into rich pockets and widens the income gap. Money that could go to purchasing goods and services, or supporting businesses of any size, or buying houses, or having kids, or paying taxes that could be used on useful things like decent roads (how taxes are used specifically is outside the scope of this discussion, just an example).

                    Your whole world could be better through loan forgiveness, just not specific to you. Just everything around you better. Just requires a little less “got mine”.

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                    Unlikely, I plan ahead and don’t make stupid financial decisions.

                    Oh sweet summer child…

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            You forgot this part of that claim - “And I didn’t get help from nobody neither”

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            I love this argument. Absolutely no empathy for anyone who had different options and experiences, just straight up “I did it so anyone else can too.” You’re making the world a better place. /s

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              I can have empathy for people in different situations than me, but it’s not my responsibility to bail them out of their problems.

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                What’s your opinion on bailing out Mega Corporations who didn’t responsibly save their money? Or is it ok to bail out Mega Corps but not ok to bail out your mechanic?

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        I guess you’re against COVID treatments too because coming in contact with other human beings is also a choice. Lung Cancer cure? No thanks, they chose to smoke those cigarettes so I would like them to suffer.

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          Lung Cancer cure? No thanks, they chose to smoke those cigarettes so I would like them to suffer.

          My mom died of Lung Cancer, didn’t smoke a single cigarette her whole life. So fuck you.

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          I don’t want them to suffer, but I’m not paying for their treatment.

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            If you have insurance, private or public, you’re paying for them either way. That’s how insurance works.

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            Nobody wants to pay taxes bud, but if you don’t, the country will fall apart around you because of precisely that.