• volvoxvsmarla @lemm.ee
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    10
    ·
    3 months ago

    As someone living in Germany, what pissed me off most was when they mentioned that they never imagined raising their kids in an apartment. Like an apartment is beneath them. It is 2024. Don’t we all know that heating single family homes and the sheer extra space they require is absolutely disproportionate? Everyone wants a cheap huge single family house in the middle of the city and no cars and no climate change. Like, yeah, that won’t happen. Can we please start normalizing living in apartments? We just moved to a much cheaper city and hope to buy a 3-4 room apartment here one day. This will still cost us about 600k and we make less than 50k combined. But even if we had the money to pay over 1.5 mil for a house here, I wouldn’t want to live in a house, unless I’d have like 6 kids.

    • FireRetardant@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      8
      ·
      3 months ago

      As your kids age into teens and young adults, the apartment offers more freedoms than suburbia as they wont require a car to go anywhere. In many US suburbs, kids are chained to their parents as a taxi service until they need to buy their own car. Which is why so many american suburbs have 4+ car sized driveways, because every human in the house must buy a car and gas and insurance etc.

    • Dkarma@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      3 months ago

      You know how hard it is to find a 4 bed apartment in the us? Most houses aren’t 4 bed!

      • volvoxvsmarla @lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        3 months ago

        Why would you need 4 bedrooms for a family of 4? I’m not 100% sure how rooms are counted there but wouldn’t 3 bedrooms and one living room be sufficient?

        • HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          3 months ago

          going to confirm. The easiest units to find are 2 bedroom, 3 bedroom are rare but not impossible to find and overpriced (you will pay almost double. To the point your wondering if you can get away with getting a 2 bedroom and a neighboring 1 bedroom because it might be the same). one bedroom and efficiency which they like to pawn off as studios (studios should have the space of a one bedroom without the wall) are common but bang for the buck 2 bedroom will get you the best price per square foot especially in relation to association dues.

        • Pips@lemmy.sdf.org
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          edit-2
          3 months ago

          In my city, it is almost impossible to find a 3 BR apartment, let alone one without exorbitant condo fees. At that point, a 3 or 4 BR house is not much more and you own the land as well.

          The problem is developers can make more building studios, 1, and 2 BRs, but anything beyond 2 BR the marginal return is lower. So if you have two kids, you’re probably going to want at least 3 BRs, which is so prohibitively expensive due to a supply shortage, the best option is to buy a house.

        • Krauerking@lemy.lol
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          3 months ago

          Den or office? I mean really not a huge needed thing and I would happily just take a nook in a corner but some people need it?

          Got to go old school and just put the office computer in the living room so everyone can enjoy the sounds of dial up