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  • magi [null/void]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    It sounds like you have the starting of a decent support network around you which is always a plus. I hope you have a nice time having coffee with your friend.

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    I hope everything else works out for you. It’s tough especially early days but things will get better even if there’s a few bumpy patches at the start… I wish you the best

    • rayne [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      I appreciate that!

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      I hated wearing the boy shorts instead of a skirt so ended up just coming out to my kid. He was chill about it, had no questions. We played games for the rest of our visit and I felt like I could be myself more. Excited to wear something cute next week instead of ugly ass shorts lol

      Wrote a couple of paragraphs on facebook about preferring feminine things and thus preferring a feminine name to my dead name after my cousin messaged me and was like, hey, I love you Rayne and this was confusing so maybe make it clearer lol Got some support from friends and supportive family. And I imagine my conservative friends and relatives will either get over it or not, not my problem really

      • magi [null/void]@hexbear.net
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        4 months ago

        I bet you do! Happy for you c:

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        I’m glad your kid was okay with you and hope going forward it’s easier for you too, plus wearing clothes that you feel more comfortable in will help with that I’m sure. I’m glad you have friends and a supportive family, that’s a great thing to have behind you.