• FunkyStuff [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    5 months ago

    It’s pretty exploitative but certainly better than “passport bros.” I wouldn’t judge a lonely guy for choosing to do this over the apps though, as a last resort.

    E: maybe exploitative isn’t the right word. But I would rather not use this method where the person you find is less likely to love you for who you are, instead they’re likely to prefer you to the other options that were immediately available. It’s only exploitative if you’re a wealthy guy who goes to a poor area to do this and take advantage of desperate women.