BIGGER AND MORE PRIDEFUL THAN EVER BEFORE trans-ferret trans-hydra

  • BountifulEggnog [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    14 days ago

    A year ago I choose they/them pronouns with much hemming and hawing about if it was okay because I was totally cis. Eventually I settled on yes, but with a note in my bio that I was totally cishet. And uh, now here we are, in the biggest trans thread on lemmy.

        • magi [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net
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          14 days ago

          But who wouldn’t want to be refereed to as they/them?

          You’d be surprised at how many can’t get their head around that lol

          I think most people here are cool. To turn up and make some site history in the face of adversity. Been around many spaces and seen many eggs crack too… I’m glad you stuck around c:

    • Wake [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net
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      I chose they/them on my old account years ago for “opsec reasons”. Or at least that’s what I told myself at the time. I still felt like I wasn’t allowed to use them or something. Like I was indulging in some cardinal sin. “I’m totally cis, I’m not allowed to use those.” And yet, 2 years later I’m on hrt and toiling away in the posting mines. cat-trans