I’m a heavy emoji user, texting is such a poor medium for communication, many times people get the wrong message, but with an emoji you’ll get an idea of the face I’m making, so less chance of misunderstanding

I noticed that every time I add an emoji to a comment it gets downvoted, so I tested my theory, wrote a comment without an emoji, got upvotes, went back and added an emoji, got downvotes…

On Reddit people use emojis a lot, on Lemmy I NEVER saw anyone use emojis, my account is new but still for the time I spent here, I never saw the use of emojis

So, is it just me, have you noticed this small detail ? and do you miss emojis the way I do ? 😭

  • @Rhoeri@lemmy.ml
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    117 months ago

    If you need to use emojis to convey feeling, emotion, or to emphasize your point-

    You need to learn more words.

      • @Rhoeri@lemmy.ml
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        -37 months ago

        Or maybe you can just say:

        “So, what’s the big deal?”

        Because it means the exact same thing. And has the added benefit of the person you’re speaking with not think you’re a 12 year old kid.

          • ΛdΛm_𝒷OP
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            47 months ago

            What’s wrong in the thinking a person who uses emojis is a 12yo ? 🤦‍♂️

            • UlyssesT [he/him]
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              47 months ago

              When you try too hard to preoccupy yourself with the concept of maturity and performatively try very hard to be The Adult In The Room:

                • UlyssesT [he/him]
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                  47 months ago

                  You, being very not mad at a moving picture for being too accurate when describing your tryhard attempts at “maturity:”

      • @Rhoeri@lemmy.ml
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        17 months ago

        See… there’s my point. That emoji doesn’t even make sense in context of what you said.

          • @Rhoeri@lemmy.ml
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            -47 months ago

            And that’s all I need to know to determine that you’re not worth talking to moving forward.

            • @bastion@feddit.nl
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              57 months ago

              That’s a lot of dischill considering the casual and inconsequential nature of this conversation.

        • @Bazoogle@lemmy.world
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          27 months ago

          Intelligence comes in more forms than just written language. Words can express emotion, but so can dance, painting, singing, even a glance can express so much. Why do you think it needs to stop at emoji’s? Your inability to understand what they are saying with that emoji is not a failure of the emoji, but your ability to interpret it. That’s like saying dancing doesn’t convey emotion because you don’t know what it is they are trying to convey. Perhaps you just need to learn more ways of expressing emotions?

    • Mike
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      47 months ago

      “why use lot word when few word do trick” is a recurring phrase used ironically by my younger staff.

    • @KinglyWeevil@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      47 months ago

      Text can be ambiguous, if only there were some kind of image that would could reliably it indicate the emotional context of your statements.

      You know, like JIF animAted pictures

    • And this hits another topic…

      Emotional expression is culturally derived.

      A raised eyebrow can mean very different things to different groups. Giving a thumbs up in Turkey or an okay sign in northern Africa will have radically different messages.

      I seriously hate emojis.

      They tell me nothing except that the sender is too lazy to give me a hint.