Very shaky, every time? Not an emergency room visit, but you need to see a doctor to rule out possible health issues. People have already brought up some serious possibilities that can become major problems if ignored.

Are you on any medications that could be causing it if you take it on an empty stomach?

It could be something you can just manage by keeping some bite sized Snickers available. (Literal suggestion from my doctor 30 years ago when I had something similar I was working through lunch and getting angry)

But my doc ruled out other issues with bloodwork. The miniature candy bars were to even out my blood sugars until I could eat properly.

I had to learn to manage it better so I didn’t snap and get fired.

For people who don’t know: Snickers candy is peanuts, caramel, and nougat covered in chocolate.

This was me. When I got married at 26, the date of one of the guests thought I was the teenaged babysitter. (We met for the first time the day before)

Dating while in school/college was easier because the guys knew I was their age. And that I just looked young. Some of them caught shit for “dating a high schooler” even though I was actually in my 20s and a college student.

I was friends with my now husband for three years before we got married. Making friends with people, making a connection, can help them see you as the adult you are. Then you start to look like someone they’d want to date. I was 23 when we met and became friends, we started dating over a year later. Dated for 2 years and married ever since.

Things are different now, as far as meeting people. I know that. But how people perceptions change is still the same. Sometimes you have to just let people get to know you and get past the initial “She’s young” until they realize you are not that young.

Once someone knows you, they’ll think of you as their peer, even if you look young (or old for that matter)

If you just want hookups, that’s trickier. Because the easy pickings are um, questionable in their tastes when you look like a teenager. Or they are the teenagers. Just be careful if you go that route.

Oh, and I was an A cup, size 2 petite. So skinny and short on top of looking young. I also got mistaken for a boy if my hair was pulled back.

Learning to love my body and it’s changes through the years, boosting my self-esteem, finding things I could be passionate about… those things are very attractive to others because those things make you feel better about yourself.

I feel dumb. I don’t understand what praxis means in this context. Even after reading the definition… someone send help

Ugh. This reminds me of a relative asking me ‘aren’t you afraid of how you’ll be treated if minorities become the majority?’

I think my mouth literally fell open. Not religious ideologies that hate women, mind you. They meant racial minorities in a predominantly white area.

People who ask questions like that know in every cell of their body that the system that they thrive in treats others horribly and justify it by believing that anyone in power would do the same.

So no, I’m not afraid of a race or nationality of people. I’m afraid of people with inhumane ideologies.

Think of it this way though, she reduced Bezos net worth by more than any taxes, government, or humanitarian aid did. Searches say by about 25% at the time.

She reduced the worth of one billionaire and is attempting to funnel as much of that as she can into humanitarian and charitable efforts.

If she burned it, it would help no one. If she gave it all to governments, 99.99% would fund weapons, war, and waste, maybe 0.01% towards social programs.

She’s not buying yachts or islands. She’s doing what we as normal people would hope we would do if we had obscene amounts of money dumped in our laps.

The alternative is her ex-husband would still have it and he’d spend $45M on a party. And Trevor Project would have none of it.

On a side note, slightly related, I’m wondering what happens when Elmo kicks it and all his relatives’, baby mama’s, and children’s lawyers come out of the woodwork to contest and divvy up that fortune.

Those are called split ends. If you have a lot of them, it’s best to get a trim (just enough to snip off the split ends) and then try to figure out what is causing them.

You can’t repair them. You can only get rid of them and then avoid them. Or keep getting maintenance trims.

With split ends trimming = longer hair over time.

Source: I had them so bad for years that my hair would break off and not get any longer looking. For me, it was too much heat (hair dryer and curling iron every day)

First read through, I assumed “big dumb one” was a human from your cat’s pov, and the mental image of the other people and cats guarding a large man from a kitten so he can poop in peace was hilarious.

Yeah, but they taste the same. At least the Doritos do last time Ibjad any.

Are you talking about a certain guy who openly talks about what he does beyond the gym & diet to have the build he has? If so, I watch because he’s really good at explaining technique. Even though I’m not trying to be a bodybuilder. I just want to be strong and not get hurt.

I bought some pizza rolls a couple years ago for nostalgia. They didn’t taste anything like I remembered.

Did they change more than the cheese since the 80s and 90s?

I feel like if a YouTuber or podcaster is bringing value to my life, I want them to get money in return.

Everyone (okay not EVERYONE) expects artists to create for free and either work full time in top of that or not eat.

I’d rather a creator choose their paid sponsors and get paid directly, than have to rely on YT or whomever to place religious or political or other bullshit ads and give them a small cut and no say.

I can’t afford to join everyone’s Patreon and I refuse to give YT my money at all. I don’t mind an ad for Factor meals or the ‘stress relief’ massager. I can just fast forward if I’m not in the mood.

Pretty sure this was a Family Guy episode

Okay, I’m 50+ and hate talk radio, general chit chat vlogging stuff.

But I now listen to two guys talk about anime because I got into it during lockdowns. No one my age wants to watch/ talk about it. I feel very “hello, fellow kids” if I try to find current fans.

So I listen to these guys discuss the things I’ve been thinking about. The story, the artwork, whatever. It scratches that itch and I’m not bothering anyone.

They sometimes discuss their lives. But it’s mainly anime chit-chat. And I can skip ahead on the ones I don’t watch.

When he sends everyone home, they just aren’t doing committees and votes?

Can’t they stay and still do things that help their districts or prep for when they are back in session? They can still work. They are still getting paid.

In my defense. I pee fast, the bathroom is close, I can hear the movie while I wash my hands.

If I pause it, my husband will manage to wander off in the 2 minutes I was gone to fix a snack or something.

Then missing 2 minutes becomes a 20 minute side quest.

You know what, it’s 10am on a Sunday. Fuck it, I’m going to eat some ice cream for second breakfast.

I would also like to add, that it’s sometimes almost impossible to have a 2nd part time job because one or both are not regular schedules. People won’t know when they are working until the week before. If both jobs do this you will end up with scheduling conflicts.

Like it would be better if you were scheduled the same 3 or 4 days a week and had the rest of the week off.

At least then you could either chill or find other activities. But they want you at their mercy and constantly in crisis.

Like you said, All Obamacare did from a company standpoint was make people no longer reliant on their employer for healthcare. So it has no bearing on 25 hr work weeks. Although with subsidies going away, a lot of people are becoming uninsured again.

FMLA was 1993, so Clinton Required lunch breaks, etc are state laws, so not Obama OT pay and some other federal protections were pre-WW2

I think they were addressing an implied specificity in your question. You were asking about American-based media or media for US audiences without explicitly saying that.

For instance, Get Out wouldn’t have hit the same if the entire cast had been white. The racial tension is the point.

Because it sounds like you are saying we accept The Ring remake being a white cast. But if Ringu had been remade with a non-white English speaking cast it would be called woke by US right-wingers. (Even though it’s Japanese fiction. At least I hope it is fiction)

Siothe other person is asking, I think, if Japan remade Get Out for the Japanese audience and used Japanese speaking white and black people, would Japanese right-wingers lose their shit and call it woke for not casting ethnically Japanese actors?

The follow-up question becomes: is it a right-wing issue regardless of the race or nationality of right-wingers or is it a uniquely US problem because of the ignored national diversity of the overall population?

I’m using mint in fluffy warm house socks. In my defense, I’m using Mint because I may have to install a super user-friendly linux on the old computers of two boomer family members who are using win 11 and macOS respectively.

I need to make sure I know it really well and can do whatever tech support I need to do. And lock it down for them.

But I’m also digging it. Especially since it’s not Weyland, I’ve been able to lock all the inputs and still watch movies

Edit: to protect from my cat, who just knocked my phone out of my hand and butt submitted this before I was ready. Now to clean my screen

I think they mean all his characters are bombastic, loud, and kind of obnoxious. But somehow still different, so you’d still be able to immediately identify each character.

Like for me, Jack Black is Jack Black. A short clip of several of his characters and I’m not sure I’d know which is which.

But this guy, Jackie Daytona the human, I’d spot in a second. Completely different guy from Lazlo the vampire.