learning to draw (since feb '24)

agender & arospec

moved across from piefed.zip, same handle there, i will prob keep that acc as backup

ALSO: i am looking for a fedi microblogging instance. if you look thru my posts and think your instance would be a good home for me please let me know ❤️ i prefer a smaller, queer-friendly, not-tech-focused community hosted in EU.

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Cake day: May 14th, 2026

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  • i have been struggling with this too, i am still so frightened all of the time and i know it is part of what prevents me from forming connections with others.

    art is helping me a lot, i think, though i don’t fully understand how yet. maybe it is letting me figure out little pieces of things that are in me and express them, or maybe it’s the experimentation and play that i felt like i wasn’t allowed to do earlier in life, or some combination of things. perhaps there is something like that for you.

    i really hope you have access to some good support systems. and please do be kind to yourself. our poor brains are so tired. i wish i could offer some better advice but i am stumbling in the darkness myself.











  • 🔧 disco’s tracking post where i do not think i will get them all but let’s try 🔧

    progress: 5/10

    1. (Freebie) Make a shitpost. 1, 2, 3
    2. Make a post about something other than technology or politics or a shitpost. 1
    3. Make a post showcasing a thing or topic you find interesting.
    4. Make a post to a community with fewer than 100 subscribers. 1
    5. Make a post to a community in a small instance. 1 (our instance is p small i think?)
    6. Make a post featuring a human-made piece of art. 1
    7. Make an on-topic comment to a post in a small community.
    8. Make a comment or post sharing news about a location relevant to you.
    9. Make a high-quality long form text post or comment.
    10. Post or comment a link from another part of the Fediverse.









  • hi again Mia! i have been enjoying the emoji picker improvements very much! :bc_happie:

    i had another QoL idea: there doesn’t currently seem to be a simple way to see an overview of one’s scheduled posts, so if you wanted to edit or reschedule a post, you have to trawl through your top-level posts, both scheduled and already public. which can get confusing as there isn’t really a way to distinguish them from each other aside from using templated/dated titles. scheduling a post displays it as published [x time ago] in one’s own profile, just like any other post.

    so, it would be handy if there was either a clear indicator like the future publication date, or a separate tab for the scheduled posts to display them in an orderly way, or even a calendar view of them. i think it could be quite useful for both community mods and regular users! but also no pressure! :bunhdheart:


  • almost always, i don’t have anyone to spend it with and it also isn’t something i have much emotional attachment to, so other than sending out a few “merry xmas” type messages i just treat it as a normal day. if there are pretty lights in the park or a cute market or something around that time of year, i will go along to that (but i also do that alone). i don’t really know much other way to do it tbh, when i was growing up it was always a hugely stressful thing with everyone angry or upset, so i like mine a lot better now :bc_smilomsweat:





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    thank you, i am hopeful that if/when i can get into a less precarious living situation (working on it rn!) it will make many things a lot easier and will open up some options for getting my work into people’s hands. there are many irons to go in the fire, it is just a long way to the smithy sometimes isnt it :bc_smilomsweat: learning to draw has saved my life so i shall keep doing it even if nobody likes or understands or wants any of it, but it certainly makes me extra happy when they do! i hope you are also in a better & less frustrating situation nowadays! :bc_flower:


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    much as i would love to, i don’t have the resources to make prints of anything yet, and probably won’t be able to even think about such things until at least next year (i also have no address to send things to until ??? not sure tbh…next year again prob!). but, it is always very encouraging to hear that people would like a print from me, i really wish i could do this for them :bc_melttears: maybe one day, but it is a very far-away day. sorry to have to say no, i am amidst a lot of life upheaval and don’t have access to the things i would need to make it happen :bc_melttears: i feel really sad about this because it is such a generous & thoughtful thing to offer and it would be very meaningful for me!