And also if Im doing ‘something wrong specifically’ , as you say so, come here and meet the women Ive asked out and let them tell you ‘what I specifically did wrong’ 🤭
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1·3 hours ago…do you have any reasons relating to the living conditions of the average person in the USSR relative to people in other nations at the time?
“All conservative ideologies justify existing inequities as the natural order of things, inevitable outcomes of human nature. If the very rich are naturally so much more capable than the rest of us, why must they be provided with so many artificial privileges under the law, so many bailouts, subsidies and other special considerations - at our expense? Their “nat urally superior talents” include unprincipled and illegal subterfuge such as price-fixing, mass m%%der, stock manipulation, insider trading, fraud, tax evasion, the legal enforcement of unfair competition, ecological spoliation, harmful products and unsafe work conditions. One might expect naturally superior people not to act in such rapacious and venal ways. Differences in talent and capacity as might exist between individuals do not excuse the crimes and injustices that are endemic to the corporate business system.”
-Parenti
…They said ‘communist China’
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GCf1obSZ334&pp=ygUPYnVyeWluZyBkZW5naXNt.
Thats how you know they have a negative IQ!
… so you are a zionist?!
And youre insulting tankies?! You are a tankie!
ok… but why fuck the USSR?
Why cant we just create women friendly public spaces that allow women and men and people of whatever gender to safely pick, accept , or deny to date someone? If someone acts up we call authorities or we ‘take care of them’ ourselves.
Its very hard to send a dick pick in public right? Also I feel itll be very hard to be a stalker if the community that you and the person that you arer toxicly obsessing over both frequent have proof that youve stalked them (or even others) in the past and it is widely known there thst you frequently stalk them, right?
Sharing memes and typing emojis back and forth is not socializing.
I would actually say youre correct about this . I forgot where I read this but a researcher basically said this as an argument in one of his articles . They said that online conversation does a terrible job of emulating real life conversations because in online discussion you cant read facial expressions, expressions and social cues, you dont get interupted(and sometimes you being able to read how , when and how frequently a person interrupts you can tell you A LOOOOT about what that person is thinking about you or what they think of you. Like if someone interrupts you EVERY time you two or you in a group woth them talks maybe they dont respect you as much as you think. If someone interrupts you with sexual innuendo maybe theyre trying to tell you something ‘a little more’) or interupt others for dramatic effect (there are some jokes out there that dont make any sense unless you interrupt the person listening to it), or if a person deliberately changes their voice for a reason that you dont know of (maybe theyre afraid of their real voice? Maybe theres something more to it…), and other things too that I cant get into since I have little experience with IRL conversating. Alnd also obviously you dont get the physical aspect of conversation when you dont do IRL conversatioms. Sometimes you just need a hug and a shoulder to cry on and them too. Humans clearly can suffer from touxh starvation.
I think they said that surprisingly it is actually negotiation-based conversation or persuasions that has taken the biggest hit for those who choose to give up IRL conversating. I cant remember exactly why though
Obviously online chatting and sharing memes has its times and its places. But I think in the modern world most people rely on these things too commonly when theyre looking to converse with or make friends.
the birth rate has been decreasing generation after generation so at least this awful trend is dying out
And yes , I do agree that many people have followed along with this idea of just having a child with very little forethought as to how to psychologically and financially care for them… but people like this are becoming less common cause more and more people are having less sex overall.
53·1 day agoCapitalism suck. Ya there I said it. Now hurry up and downvote me cause youre too childish to accept the truth or to put in the effort to make permanent changes in our lives.
…so youre struggling and you just cant admit it?
…Wot?
…Why help each other when we can just kill the hoarding puppeteers?! Then everyine will be able to easily help themselves!
Lol dafuq are you on about?
Capitalism Enshittifies The Internet - Scammers and Influencers Version©®™ 😂🤣
lol any straight man who relies on online dating is planning to die alone lol.
Didnt tinder and other dating apps release data that actually proves that the ratio of men to women is like 5 to 1 on average for all of them? And we dont know how many straight men to straight women are in that ratio. COuld be 10 to 1 or 7 to 1 …
I dont think its not thst they shouldnt be themselves its rather that people like the OP, if they exist, should change themselves to be more respecting of tihers’ private spaces or OP just has not matured to the point that they know thenselves.
A person who is secure in themeelves will never spy on a person’s panties and ‘correlate it to their supposed horniness’…
like 90% of the rejections were IRL
But also …dude did you read what I typed? I said ots OK if nobody wants to date me . There have been millions of humans born before me who were just like me(and honestly there wil probably be millions more born after me) . Humans who worked out , got their mental health as well as one xan get it to be alone and put tjemselves out there…and…STILL didnt meet anyone who reciprocated their love. Thats perfectly OK. Thats just life. It is what it is🤷🏿♂️🫂 If someone cant accept that? They ought not be dating.
How am I anywhwre close to an incel? lool That term has been tarnished far and away from the lady that first invented it. its sad to be honest cause the term could have been used to describe those who are always feeling ‘lwft out’ from friendships, relationships, and physical love…
Aoso incels tend to believe that ‘tHeRe’s OnLy tWo GemDeRs’ lie and I believe in the Mosaic Model Of Gender so there could be unlimited genders and anyone of any gender can date anyone of any other gender as long as theyre consenting adults. And also incels tend to beleive that males are a ‘sUpEriOr GeNdeR’ (We obviously arent based on the state of the genocidal patriarchal world today) I will never beleive that. All genders deserve equality and equity
Also ive been to therapy for 3 years after I turned 23. It barely helped . My therapist told me about cognitive distorrtions which helped me get my. head right when I gave myself too mant ultimatums. SHe also told me about ‘Self-Touch Meditation’ for my touch starvation…its meh . It will DEFINIRELY not solve a person’s problems related to f touch starvation. I realise that what I probably need now is a relief from my touch starvation and friends I can connect with and ‘cry on their shoulders’ whem im going through something. They can cry on my shoulders too. I will console them and hug them when they need me. Im tjinking about getting a pet or something soft I can cuddle like a BIG teddy bear …
I will have to see what solutions I find 🤷🏿♂️
Thank you for your kind words but as I said before "some of the worst people in history have been able to find partners and keep those partners.* Heck, we read and watch about stories on true crime channels all the time where a persom who repeatedly punched and emotionally abused their partners was able to convince that abused party to keep om and keep om and keep on coming back to them.
And then you have people who wouldnt hurt a fly, take care of their body and their mind and put themselves oit there for others to date and they never met a single person , despite their hardest efforts. Dating is random
There are no soulmatess. There is no ethereal Space Gods perfectly glcrafting other humans for each of us obviously. Dating is very random. In the past dating was probably more random with the commonality of arranged marriages and impossibly difficult divorce laws that made loveless marriages waaay more common. (Well at least weve reduced those types of relationships . Phew! We need to keep on reducing such relationships since they hirt society.) As I said before datinfg is random.
Also about the defeatiam. Ive been rejected probably 200 times (I actually lost count after about 120 but Im guessing Ive almost reached 300 so far) It is actually normal for the human brain to accept a defeatist attitude to something that youve failed 200 times. Thats how the brain works, no? If a person has failed a test 200 times …what do you think theyll be thinking the 201st time? …
Sometimes there are dating rules that make no sense (like people who repeatedly choose to go back to partners that are abusive and even deadly…) Sometims there are rules that make a lot of sense (Males should make an effort to ensure that the ladies that they ask out feel safe and can say no and that they can escape if those ladies feeo that the situation is too awkward for the ladies, seeing as how males are the taller and heavier of our species) Daring is veery random . Most of the rules of dating are sort of like quantum mechanics - there are many things we dont know.
If you want to keep on and keep on trying to complete this difficult test even though youve failed 3 million times ? Up to you! If one failure is enough? Up to you. If dating is just to nonsensical for you to ever get into? Up to you. We are all adults here . We shouod not judge or restrict a kind, peaceful person who doesnt want to date or does want to date. Regardless of whatever gender they are or whoever they want to date. Love is love at the end of the day
TLDR. Dating is random. If youre a lonely, kind person who takes care of yourself , your communites , and your mental health and your still lonely? Its not your fault. Sometimes it just is what it is🫂 Some awful people have had dozens of partners. Some kind people never met a single person who reciprocated their love. Soulmates dont really exist if you think carefully about. Love and peace y’all . Bye. ❤️🩹🫂
P.S. If anyone wants to read more about that TLDR I would recommend that ‘The Nuance Pill’ articles from substack
Also umm this:
I feel like peopele should stop lying to themselves when they say these traits are not imoortant for meeting a monogamous partner. You partner will definitely care about how loyal to them you are if you two are monogamously involved. You oartner will likely care about how kind you are to them and others - heck there are some people who have mental illnesses that make it so thst they like unkind and abusive people MORE. And your oartner will DEFINITELY care about how you look or how ‘beautiful’ or ‘handsome’ you are . There is undeniably a ‘physical aspect’ to a person’s attraction towards you in a monogamous relationship. Would anyone here stay married to a partner who has deliberately let their health go to the point that they belong on ‘My 700 Pound Life’ ? Would anyone here stay with someone who has had so much plastic surgeries that that partner crossed past the Uncanny Valley a looomg time ago? …didnt think so.