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One weird thing I’ve learned from talking to cis people, even sympathetic ones, is that so many think trans people are always super visibly trans and you’ll always know if you’re speaking to a trans person.
Which is ironic because cishets are like the easiest people to stealth mode among. The gays are usually a bit more attentive, and hiding it from other trans people is the super advanced difficulty.
It’s such an uncomfortable vibe. I’m just a normal woman living a normal life, most strangers don’t know or care that I’m trans.