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TheSpectreOfGay [he/him, she/her]
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Cake day: January 2nd, 2021
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6·4 months agosex
their logic was that it wasn’t enough stimulus to feel good and therefore be worth it? idk, really fucking weird take
thanks for the affirmation, it’s really helpful for other people to remind me that they were fucking abusive and i needed to get out lol
thanks
whenever i post in this sub the two ghosts look cute together in my comment history ngl
kinda a downer thing about abuse also SEX MENTIONED
so i broke up with my partner of about a year about a month ago
i learned that after cutting communication with them from a mutual friend that they had called me transmisogynist bc i was attributing them “standing up for themselves” as a threat because of me thinking of them as a dangerous cis man. obviously i did not think this, and the “standing up” for themselves was them yelling and insulting me, usually over perceived slights that were not what i was trying to communicate.
while we were dating they had also made a lot of transphobic comments towards me and other AFAB trans people. like saying AFAB trans people have it infinitely easier than AMAB trans people and that there was little point to me topping cos i’d have to use a strap.
so yea i dont feel great about all that lmao
i have played 0 of these games so they’re all bad probably
7·4 months agobut it’s over now. we have to back to normal. if i see someone wearing a mask i must inform them they dont need to wear it anymore. /j
im so sick of constantly being told that i dont have to wear a mask teehee
4·4 months agoi would love to know how a predictive language models are gonna help solve climate change but okay
2·4 months agothank u comrade
i learned from another mutual today they had outed themselves as being abusive to them by accident, and r now suffering the repercussions of most of our mutual friends being grossed out by their actions, so im back to
for real, a friend of mine warned me that they seemed like the kinda person who’d slander me to mutual friends, and i was like “nah they’ll probably just vent about it, im doing that too so it’s fine”
nope, just completely trying to convince people im some kinda horrible person and accidentally outing themselves as super abusive to multiple people in the process
mutual friend sent me what my ex said to them after i cut contact with them and ohhhh man
apparently i am not of sound mind for thinking “good luck finding someone who can act perfectly forever” was uh, basically saying no one can love me. also apparently i am not friends with my friends because i can only get along with people who don’t have a spine… so sorry everyone here apparently u dont have spines i hope u get new ones soon that must be uncomfortable 😔
they also said i was trans misogynist cos i got uh… upset/scared at them throwing tantrums and literally screaming at me constantly, so i apparently equate aggression = masculine = dangerous man. which is … an interesting thing to presume, i think. while we were dating they made weird comments about all trans AFAB guys being shitty, which was, you know, not good, since i am that.
10·4 months agoi miss when trump was in office during covid. at least libs pretended to care back then.
5·4 months agohope you feel better soon
i had to make multiple reminders to take mine cos im so forgetful
30·4 months agoGiving nobles magic powers. Especially when people born as commoners get elevated in class due to having magic ability or something. Endorsing the ruling class as being better than everyone else inherently and therefore having a right to rule over them sucks and reinforces meritocratic ideas in the reader.
im a NEET for now bc i can’t find a fucking job
12·5 months agomy dog barks at me when i cry so it’s a hard decision
yea, my field is both oversaturated and very competitive
im taking a break for now cos im losing my sanity lol
congrats!
the fucked up thing is that 100 applications is actually a really low amount for an offer. i probably get an interview every 400.
green is my favourite colour
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go play in stars and time it’s good