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Cake day: October 18th, 2025

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  • My wife and I had a productive talk. I actually vocalized that I’ve been thinking of transitioning, which is a massive step for me. Prior to this talk I’ve only told her that I’m questioning my gender identity. She’s been very supportive so far. She’s made it clear that she’ll need a lot of grace and we’ll need some couple’s therapy but overall her response leaves me pretty hopeful.

    On the other hand, constant family stuff around holidays always leaves me feeling a lot of self doubt and makes the prospect of eventually coming out seem so intimidating and overwhelming. I just can’t imagine myself ever having the courage to do it with my family or hers.