I’m in a similar boat. Have a Netgate 7100 and it’s garbage. My network is mostly 10gb with a few 25gb devices. The 25gb is on the same VLAN so the router doesn’t come into play there, but it does a bunch across the 10gb devices. The netgate can’t handle it. Just bought an r230 and started setting up vyos. If opnsense can handle the traffic I might just go with that. Having a GUI is nice and I’m already familiar with pfsense.

I run Ubuntu server on bare metal with docker