AutomatedPossum [she/her]

in this case i wouldn’t rule out it was originally made up because somebody was horny and then later turned their fantasy into an article.

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a third of the users are cishet

GAY

A common binary trans consideration that I have the hardest time relating to as a non-binary trans person is a burning desire to pass as the gender that one identifies with.

As a nonbinary transfem who is very closely ajacent to what is commonly referred to as “binary trans womanhood”, i really struggle with the way many other nonbinary people frame issues of cissexism, passing obsession, transmedicalism, lack of self worth, excessive and unwarranted shame and internalized transmisogyny as “a binary thing” instead of as “a deeply brainwormed thing”. These desires are not inherent to “binary” transness, they are inherent to the ruling discourse about what the trans experience has to be like, which is a discourse that purposely exists only within the safeguards of binary gender roles. But i see many of these assumptions bleeding into nonbinary spaces as well. The underlying, toxic desire to be cis, to hate one’s transness, to reject one’s body for not meeting (cis)normative standards of beauty is present in both cases, and it is the main obstacle to trans joy in both cases as well.

idk if you’ve read his other posts, but he has literally accused queer people of “shoving [our] sexuality down his throat” and has accused people with a top-bottom dynamic in their relationship of being heteronormative as if he was some fucking terf vomitting out a sex negative manifesto in the 1970s. He can’t tell the difference between being sex repulsed and being a literal homophobic kinkshaming fascist.

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So after your other comment itt, i’m generous enough to give you the benefit of the doub that you’re really just tired off allonormativity, but this post still rubs me the wrong way. I’m gonna keep my original gut level reaction to this deleted, but i still feel that your entire post sounds like kinkshamy, queerphobic bad faith shit hidden behind a wall of word salad. This really creeps me out and reminds me way too much of people making queer spaces irl unsafe for my friends and me.

So after your other comment itt, i’m generous enough to give you the benefit of the doub that you’re really just tired off allonormativity, but this post still rubs me the wrong way. I’m gonna delete my original gut level reaction to this, but i still feel that your entire post sounds like kinkshamy, queerphobic bad faith shit hidden behind a wall of word salad, and i can’t feel sorry for jumping down your throat when you come at my community like this.

hisses approvingly in her vegan leather skirt

Happened to me as well even though i barely bothered to push voice training beyond the androgynous range. Cis people think of their voice as this set-in-stone natural thing and everything else as a form of faking, but a voice is actually just a learned way to use the most complex instrument built into the human body. It’s very easy to forget the exact mannerisms you trained yourself for, because that wasn’t your natural default voice, it was a learned way of speaking just like the one you learn when you transition.

You will quickly learn to hate how the cis moderate will continue to talk about you instead of with you even when you are actively engaged in a one on one conversation with them.

Yeah that works pretty well. I’m having my tenth laser session on monday and the only dark stubble that remains visible is half a John Waters mustache on my left upper lip and some hairs under my nose. I haven’t needed orange concealer since about session 6 or 7. When my health insurance pays for it, i’m gonna clean the remainder up with electrolysis afterwards, especially the grey hairs on my chin, but i really went from “my beard dysphoria is murdering me” to “i’m a girl who thinks about getting rid of some annoying facial hair, but is unsure if she needs to” just with laser.

This is incorrect, the feminist stance is that women decide if they or their wife get to keep the surname in a game of axe throwing. In case of a draw, both women end up with a hyphenated double name.

It gets a lot worse when you’re German and the most common slur for brown people in your language is derived from the name of the Kanak people.

IPL is useless for facial hair because the roots are in too deep there. IPL can work well on your legs, belly etc., but face and back hair need an actual laser for permanent results

there’s places that offer package deals for face and full body laser i think

I can’t speak for Korean manosphere ideology, but all i see of the Western equivalent is built very thoroughly towards a hermetically sealed world view were the tiniest bit of change will make you a beta cuck doomed to a lifetime of paying child support for somebody else’s children. Inocculation against criticism is very central to incel, PUA, high value male and MIGTOW discourses. So within that ideological framework, doubling down in an attempt to become as alpha as possible and getting one of the last remaining tradwifes or becoming completely blackpilled are the only logical conclusions.

Not even after, we’ll be on the same train.