Had some less than protected sex and did not pull out in time

I am not very smart and have very little self control, picked up some plan b but i live in a anti abortion state so im stressin i tell ya hwat. Just had to vent on the interwebs

Idk why i do this to myself but as a wise man once said, “we all make mistakes in the heat of passion jimbo”

  • booty [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    8 months ago

    What’s done is done, but pull out strat is stupid to begin with, don’t try it next time. You can get someone pregnant even doing it “successfully.”

    On the other hand, you can also have unprotected sex every night for months and not get a pregnancy no matter how hard you try. This shit’s all random and it’s really not especially likely that one mistake leads to a pregnancy. Just be smarter next time comrade, if you need to be responsible for a whole new person it should be when you’re prepared for it

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      8 months ago

      A woman I know who recently turned THIRTY YEARS OLD was confiding in me about a pregnancy scare because she used the pullout method and I was like

      lea-why

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      8 months ago

      Yeah i know 🥲

      We both like to think of ourselves as smarter than that but we are young and when things are in the moment we dont think rationally. Both of us being early twenties and adhd doesnt help im sure. We figured we’ solve the problem yesterday by buying more condoms and just putting them everywhere we might have sex.

      Maybe it was understandable when we were teenagers who recieved like 1 day of sex ed but i feel like we should definitely be more responsible by now