• PenguinJuice@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    I mean then why did she marry him? Maybe people should date longer instead of rushing into marriage.

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      No human institution, agreement, or connection will ever be free of both bad actors and blameless mistakes, so there must be a way to end such things in order to preserve life, dignity, and happiness.

      Our institutions are created to serve us as people, not to bind us for the sake of being binding.

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        Or just don’t get married to people with red flags. They are usually very obvious and willfully ignored. We need to stop allowing people to hand wave consequences.

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      You’re flatout uneducated. Read some history on what led to modern divorce laws to begin with

      Like this really doesn’t need a discussion. There have been decades of discussion. This is about people not learning a damn thing about that discussion.

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      What the fuck? It’s clear you’re an incel, but my gosh you don’t get to imprison other people because they finally realize you’re a piece of trash.

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      There are many people that are extremely adept at pretending to be one person to get someone to fall in love and marry them, and as soon as they are married, they become the real them. Manipulative, controlling, usually abusive, and you would never know until it was too late.