Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agoWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?message-squaremessage-square197fedilinkarrow-up1243arrow-down112
arrow-up1231arrow-down1message-squareWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agomessage-square197fedilink
minus-squareTheImpressiveX@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down1·1 year ago“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down10·1 year agoStill kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
minus-squaremiss_brainfart@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down1·1 year agoHonestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.
minus-squareThorny_Thicket@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up9arrow-down1·1 year agoBut if you have no intention to then you’re just lying and now you’re actually being an asshole instead of just being thought to be one
“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
Still kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
Honestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.
But if you have no intention to then you’re just lying and now you’re actually being an asshole instead of just being thought to be one