You must first accept that the message conveyed is incredible. What the great modern philosopher there seems to wish to convey was the idea that acknowledging others is a pure trait, and it suggests a common human experience of having asexual dreams and regrets. It combines a philosophical notion of acknowledging fellow humans with an understanding that desire is smth we only save for others as we regret any desire that isnt for another.

OR we’re both talking out of our arse