• Evia@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    And shitty fucking female role models, let’s not forget them #sickofseeingmyidolsturndark

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      6 months ago

      Waddya mean by turn dark? 🤔 kinda sounds like a hashtag snowflake conservatives would use to bitch and moan about minority representation in media haha

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      Lol Shitty male role models always get called out. Shitty female role models get praised by everyone because “slut shaming” is “wrong”.

      Fuck role models, parents need to give their children enough love that they don’t have to slut themselves out to feel empowered.

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        I don’t understand. People get called out if you call them out. So why are you being sexist about it?

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          It’s not sexist to point out that Andrew Tate is recognized by many as shitty male role models while at the same time Cardi B is praised by the same people. Those are just two examples of shitty role models but the difference between public reaction for the two seems to only be about their sex. I’m just pointing it out.

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            Cardi B

            Never herd of her. Why do people like her and what is she doing that should be called out?

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              She’s a rapper. I’m not saying people shouldn’t like her, she has some bangers and she’s pretty damn sexy. But she’s a gangster and used to be a stripper before her rap career took off. She promotes women being whores and only caring about men for their money. Obviously if it’s just adults listening it doesn’t matter and is fun. But kids like her too and it normalizes being a gold digging whore for them. It’s my opinion that if you have videos online of your naked body, you are disqualified from being a role model but others see it as empowering and a reason to be a role model. I just don’t get that.

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                Can I ask you what your definition of a whore is? You mention a specific instance/example of course. But I’m wondering what to you embodies a whore and why that’s wrong. Interested in discussion, not debating ya ☺️

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                  Well I don’t think it’s fundamentaly wrong, I just don’t think little girls should want to grow up to be that. But I’m happy to expand what I mean when I get out of work. Give me a few hours:)

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                  Just calling her a stripper is burying the big thing. She used to lure men into hotel rooms thinking they had a chance with her, then drug them and rob them.

                  She talked about it on an instagram.live video circa 2016 or so, it resurfaced and made news again in 2019 and comes up on and off since then.

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                    6 months ago

                    That behavior falls under “Gangster” not stripper. Although I’m sure she met them at whatever clubs she worked at