Me personally? I’ve become much less tolerant of sexist humor. Back in the day, cracking a joke at women’s expense was pretty common when I was a teen. As I’ve matured and become aware to the horrific extent of toxicity and bigotry pervading all tiers of our individualistic society, I’ve come to see how exclusionarly and objectifying that sort of ‘humor’ really is, and I regret it deeply.
As I’ve gotten older (65M), I find that I have grown less hurried and hasty to judge.
Hurrying and rushing really doesn’t help me to do anything faster or better, so why bother?
You do need to be able to quickly judge and assess people and situations in many settings and for a variety of reasons. That being said, I find that judging people prematurely can fail to appreciate their extenuating or particular circumstances. Everyone’s got their own lives, problems and situations. For that matter, everyone can just have a crappy day. Doesn’t mean you have to take crap from people, just helps to give the benefit of the doubt where and when feasible.