This wasn’t a husband, it was a father of one of the women’s kids. He didn’t live there, and he showed up “irate” at 4am. She felt unsafe, and not unreasonably so. If you genuinely feel unsafe and can’t leave the situation (for any number of reasons), that’s when you roll the dice and call the cops.
This is also a black woman living in Mississippi, so even if she’s lucky enough to have never been on the receiving end of shitty police behavior, she possibly had a better appreciation than most what might show up at her door if she called them. She was still unnerved enough to call. Maybe she didn’t think it through, but again, I don’t think it was the wrong impulse.
I remember a woman from the US called the police because her son was having a mental breakdown and threatened to kill himself with his shotgun. Multiple police arrived and found the woman talking to his son who is inside his vehicle. The police saw the shotgun and promptly shot the son multiple times with the mother just outside the car in close proximity.
This is why calling cops to solve family disputes is a bad idea. They peddle violence and to a hammer. Everything looks like a nail.
I’d agree in many cases but not this one.
This wasn’t a husband, it was a father of one of the women’s kids. He didn’t live there, and he showed up “irate” at 4am. She felt unsafe, and not unreasonably so. If you genuinely feel unsafe and can’t leave the situation (for any number of reasons), that’s when you roll the dice and call the cops.
This is also a black woman living in Mississippi, so even if she’s lucky enough to have never been on the receiving end of shitty police behavior, she possibly had a better appreciation than most what might show up at her door if she called them. She was still unnerved enough to call. Maybe she didn’t think it through, but again, I don’t think it was the wrong impulse.
Roll the dice on calling the cops, the way its meant to be 😎
That phrasing is utterly dystopian
I disagree. Had to call the cops a few times to settle family disputes, they were always the best course of action.
I remember a woman from the US called the police because her son was having a mental breakdown and threatened to kill himself with his shotgun. Multiple police arrived and found the woman talking to his son who is inside his vehicle. The police saw the shotgun and promptly shot the son multiple times with the mother just outside the car in close proximity.