• Serisar@feddit.de
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    11 months ago

    Come on, don’t be disingenuous, you need more than a bus ticket if you don’t live close to the border of a state that allows abortions.

    Your whole trip will most likely take three days or more (getting there, getting the procedure, coming back), so you need at least two days in a hotel/Airbnb. You will have to get off work for those days as well, that is cost as well.

    That could be around 300$ together if you don’t have any vacation/sick days, on top of the cost of the procedure itself. And it’s not like you can save up that money over several weeks/months either, when you need an abortion every day counts. Contrary to some media, those affected don’t want to wait until the last possible day.

    Some people really only have money for the bare necessities. And they are the ones who really should have access to an abortion because a baby wouldn’t improve their situation in the slightest.

    Being poor isn’t a choice in most cases. Learned helplessness might play a role, but telling them “just get a bus ticket, lul” won’t change that.

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      11 months ago

      Ain’t a “might” about learned helplessness. The amount of rationalization in this day and age about people failing so hard of their own accord that they don’t have 300 bucks is fucking pathetic. Like just fucking do something, anything, except continue doing the same thing. Sell some fucking drugs, why not, quick financial.boost and go.

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        11 months ago

        I hope you’re being sarcastic.

        If not, you should seriously reconsider yourself.

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          11 months ago

          I’ve never defined my morality by what the government says, is why I suggested to something, that something not being theft though.

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            11 months ago

            It doesn’t matter if it’s moral, it’s dangerous. Cash business in a significant volume, that you can’t insure or make meaningful contracts for.

            Your suggestion of doing high risk things to make money is the same as a suggestion to gamble to get money.

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              11 months ago

              You fucking people are so risk adverse, it’s no wonder you’d rather be slaves to the state rather than try