• apftwb@lemmy.world
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    “Affair” is definitely not the right word. Affairs typically don’t end in self-immolation.

    Also worth mentioning him by name and district for any Texans reading. Tony Gonzales: U.S. representative for Texas’s 23rd congressional district (basically the entire Texas-Mexico border area)

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      HE MURDERED HER AND BURNED THE BODY.

      Uvalde Police Department is going to be under another investigation before the last one ends.

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        I think that’s a stretch. Her husband cheated on her, her boss took advantage of her in this emotionally vulnerable state, she was ostracized/shamed for her actions and mischaracterized in news. I can see that pushing anyone into self-immolation territory.

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          That specific kind of suicide is unheard of in ones own home and even more for a woman. It’s one of the worst eays to go and is the kind of thing one does to make a statement. If she self immolated it would have been in front of him or somewhere public. Uvalde didn’t even investigate.

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            So I found a study.

            https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/public-health/articles/10.3389/fpubh.2024.1234584/full#ref18

            First off you are right. Self-immolation is much rarer than I thought. This study only had n=51 over 13 years. I have nothing on location of the event.

            Also women commit self-immolation slightly more often than men post COVID, but that might be skewed because of women in Asian countries.

            As for a coverup, self-immolation is a hellava way to not draw attention to yourself. I think doing it in public only slightly less extreme than doing it at home. Less risk of being stopped halfway through?

            It is unfortunate Uvalde PD is handling this. Being a congressman from Texas could definitely allow you to influence a murder investigation in Texas by Texas police.

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    Way to softball with the word “affair”. More like continuously harassed his employee into having sex, then he and the rest of her coworkers ostracized her after it gets out until she lights herself on fire.

    This man caused her death through his sexual harassment

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    Lauren Boebert of Colorado, Anna Paulina Luna of Florida, Nancy Mace of South Carolina, and other Republicans in demanding that Gonzales step down

    it’s still mind-boggling that there are women who are completely unaware, or worse, ignoring the fact that one of the main core values of the republican ideology is harassing, bullying, controlling, RAPING women

    yea, it happens on the D side too, but when we find out about it we don’t keep fucking voting for them

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    I mean why would he since it has no repercussions. Who do they think he is. A democrat. I mean do they think its the 90’s. I mean yeah he did this stuff but jesus and immigrants.

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    tbf, as long as the affair was consentual and with an adult, i don’t really care anymore.

    R refuse to go after history’s most notorious pedofilies but will cry about an affair?

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      consentual

      Media is sanewashing this. Self-immolation is involved.

      (edit: Not blaming commenter/OP. The media is reporting this as an afair which are typically consentual)

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        I was just pointing Republican hypocrisy. made the original coment conditional, because I don’t have the time and energy to deep dive on this, I hope he falls and faces real consequences.

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          Tbh I do agree that affairs happen, everyone clutches their pearls, and its usually a coin-flip if someone resigns. This is definitely not that.

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            after hearing more about the case, I’m now also angry at the press for calling it an affair instead of rape or sexual assault

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            ok man,

            I’m not going to die on this hill, just pointing the hypocrisy if crying foul at someone’s afair, while protecting Trump. who had so many affairs, and rape accusations and Esptein closest friend.

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              Nah dude, he harassed her into it until she said yes. Consensual affairs don’t involve official harassment complaints.

              Edit: And don’t look for anything but hypocrisy from people who protect Trump, it’s a waste of time

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                good thing my original comment was conditional. that is definitely not consentual, let him fall, and hopefully jail.

                no need to look for their hypocrisy, they openly yell that.

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              I’m just saying that this is the kind of situation where one shouldn’t take it for granted that it’s consensual. I’m not throwing shade, just pointing that out as an important thing to consider.

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                my fucks was on Republican hypocrisy, from what I’ve learned in this case, it seems like it was not consentual and why is it called an affair instead of sexual harassment or rape??? fuck him. let him burn and hopefully face consequences.

                I’m not at any point defended him, just seething in anger on how Republicans are moving heaven and earth to protect history most notorious pedophiles rapists, and then getting upset at what they call “an affair”.

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                  That’s fine. I’m not suggesting you defended him. I know many people on Lemmy are like that, but it’s not happening here.