「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.works to Showerthoughts@lemmy.world · edit-22 months agoI just realized there is not really a word for "cuddling" in Chinese Languages... probably a reflection of the lack of Public Display of Affection¹ in Chinese Culture... (¹and sometimes even at home)message-squaremessage-square19linkfedilinkarrow-up176arrow-down13file-text
arrow-up173arrow-down1message-squareI just realized there is not really a word for "cuddling" in Chinese Languages... probably a reflection of the lack of Public Display of Affection¹ in Chinese Culture... (¹and sometimes even at home)「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.works to Showerthoughts@lemmy.world · edit-22 months agomessage-square19linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-square「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up17·2 months agoNo I mean like… I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home. Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me. Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot. So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it. Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…
minus-squareGonzako@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 months agoIs this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why
minus-square「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·2 months agoOh okay, so I’m gonna walk downstairs to the living room and be like: “點解你哋唔 性交？” 💀 Nah its… how do I explain it… Like there’s this atmosphere, this “vibe” that like… it doesn’t feel as open as a westerm family is. Like I never even seen any thing remotely resembling a “sex scene” in Chinese tv shows, that just to show you what the culture is like. It’s gonna be so awkward to ask it lmao.
minus-squareJaddedFauceet@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 months agoBe the change you want to see. Create a new word for it. Spread the love in public.
minus-squarenorthernlights@lemmy.todaylinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 months agoYeah when my Chinese ex-wife and I moved to France, she was astonished to see my parents hug and kiss.
No I mean like…
I never saw my parents hug… never saw them kiss… not even at home.
Don’t think they even have sex, I suspect the only two times they ever fucked was to procreate… to create my brother and me.
Literally their room is open and I could just walk in, and as a kid I go sleep in their bed a lot.
So no, they didn’t have sex, because if they did, I would’ve had accidentally barged in and saw it.
Maybe this is why they argue a lot lol, lack of sex…
Is this something you can talk your parents about? They’re kinda the only ones that can answer why
Oh okay, so I’m gonna walk downstairs to the living room and be like: “點解你哋唔 性交？”
💀
Nah its… how do I explain it…
Like there’s this atmosphere, this “vibe” that like… it doesn’t feel as open as a westerm family is.
Like I never even seen any thing remotely resembling a “sex scene” in Chinese tv shows, that just to show you what the culture is like.
It’s gonna be so awkward to ask it lmao.
Be the change you want to see.
Create a new word for it. Spread the love in public.
Yeah when my Chinese ex-wife and I moved to France, she was astonished to see my parents hug and kiss.