if you want details, I got laid on grindr and it sucked so much don’t count it as sex. also had a short polyamory thing, but due yo not fault of her I called it off, she reminded me too much of an abusive ex and ended up with serious PTSD flashbacks and ended relapsing. we’re still friend and I’m helping her move next week.

my conclusion is that sex/romance is nice, just noting compared with a healthy community.