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minus-squareHurensohn@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up21arrow-down2·11 months agoIt is the power imbalance that they get off on.
minus-squareLmaydev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up20arrow-down2·11 months agoSome people are born with an attraction to children that they can’t help. Some people are monsters who enjoy the power. They are two very different things. Natural attraction can be dealt with in therapy but most people won’t come forward about it. As if it gets out their life would be over. I can imagine it really sucks for people born that way being lumped together with the actual pieces of shit.
minus-squareunnecessarygoat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0arrow-down1·11 months ago Natural attraction can be dealt with in therapy wouldn’t that be conversion therapy?
minus-squareLmaydev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·11 months agoNot really. It’s about learning to manage it.
minus-squareCase@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·11 months agoSo why not explore the mental domination subset of BDSM with a consenting (and of legal age) partner?
minus-squarekandoh@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·11 months agoYou’re right, you’ve really found the flaw in this guys approach.
It is the power imbalance that they get off on.
Some people are born with an attraction to children that they can’t help.
Some people are monsters who enjoy the power.
They are two very different things.
Natural attraction can be dealt with in therapy but most people won’t come forward about it. As if it gets out their life would be over.
I can imagine it really sucks for people born that way being lumped together with the actual pieces of shit.
wouldn’t that be conversion therapy?
Not really. It’s about learning to manage it.
So why not explore the mental domination subset of BDSM with a consenting (and of legal age) partner?
You’re right, you’ve really found the flaw in this guys approach.