Hi all! As a queer demisexual person, I find myself getting really frustrated at even the thought of dating in this age of social upheaval, extreme individualism and hookup culture.
For those of us who have had some good dating experiences lately, what are some strategies that have worked well for you?


I also find it really difficult to find local hobby groups outside of uni. There’s not much clubs out there and when they do, it’s often a group that are already tight knitted. I’ve seen professional hobbies groups as well, but they cost a ton (something like $30-40 per art session) & hosts sessions in different areas of the city/park/forest, which renders them really inaccessible. Curious to hear if others also have similar troubles
As imaginary_stand4909 suggested above: I’ve always found it easier to meet likeminded (or at least community minded) people when doing any kind of volunteer work. Not sure about dating, though…