• guriinii@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Both? Don’t really give a shit about physical sex even though I think about it a lot, but have a massive sex drive. I have really strong aesthetic attraction but actual sex is awkward.

    • grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org
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      1 year ago

      Omg ADHD makes sex so boring.

      Silly nosy question, do ADHD meds help? I’ve not tried them in that context, just at my office job. Also, I’m bad at consistently taking them because I can often just naturally hyperfocus on my work and so don’t need dextroamphetamine that day.

  • Athena5898@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    it’s probably too late but being ace doesn’t mean you can’t have sexual attraction depending on where you fall on the spectrum and someone who is ace and doesn’t enjoy sex might have a fully active libido. I’m a demi/grey ace and i honestly get a little tired of this weird thing that has happened where ace is just synonymous with someone who just doesn’t ever have or think about sex ever. It really flattens the experience…though to be fair it’s not like it’s been talked about in the community a lot. Feels like gatekeepers have won in that regard. But anyway, as for the original post I’m honestly pretty inbetween, some days I’m a lot more into my sexuality than others, and depending on the situation and person my sexual attraction (not to be confused with libido) might kick in at the most random of times.

  • Persen@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    When my friends talk about watching porn (we are all minors, thus not having sex). I feel like they are all perverted(since i rarely think about sex). I tried watching porn, but I usually find it boring.