I’m invited to a gala dinner hosted by our mayor for the mayor and some council members of our twinned town in the UK. As I will have some talk to both the British mayor and the council members, what are the correct terms to respectfully address them in their ranks and functions?

  • gnutrino@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    I recommend “oi cunt”. Seriously though, mayors and councillors aren’t really high enough in the pecking order to have special terms in the UK - just be polite but otherwise treat them as normal people.

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      1 year ago

      I recommend “oi cunt”.

      Nice try. I’ll reserve this for after the meeting, or at least when I got a good (or more precisely bad) enough impression of them :-)

      Seriously though, mayors and councillors aren’t really high enough in the pecking order to have special terms in the UK

      Ah, OK. That could be the reason why I found nothing so far. I was just cautious, as British officials seem to be peculiar when it comes to ranks and titles. Better safe than sorry.

      Thanks!

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    1 year ago

    As election officials it’s just

    “Councillor” and surname.

    “Mayor” and surname.

    Until they tell you to drop the formalities.

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    1 year ago

    If you are announcing them:

    • Lord Mayor: The Right Worshipful Mayor Jo/e Bloggs
    • Mayor: His/Her Worship Mayor Jo/e Bloggs

    Speaking to them:

    • Lord Mayor: Lord Mayor
    • Mayor: Mr/Madam Mayor

    Councillor either way: Councillor Bloggs.

    At which point they’ll look suitably embarrassed and say “just call me Jo/e”

    If you are concerned the relevant council should have guidance on this, most of it online.

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      No, I’m not going to announce them ;-) But maybe, if we have a conversation going, I am going to ask him what he thinks about “His Worship”.

      So it is just “Mr. Mayor Lindney”, which is fine with me.

      • ᴇᴍᴘᴇʀᴏʀ 帝@feddit.uk
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        1 year ago

        That’ll do. They’d have to be a proper stuffed shirt to get their knickers in a twist over any minor lapses in etiquette. Most mayors are just local councilors.

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    1 year ago

    “Mayor” and “Councillor” work, or sir and mam. Assuming you’re speaking to them publicly in a council meeting, you want to keep it formal. If it’s more one to one then it could be a little more relaxed.