• Steve Dice@sh.itjust.works
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    11 days ago

    Anon is depressed and self-sabotaged because he doesn’t think he’s worthy of love. Therapists should really advertise in 4chan.

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      11 days ago

      but this time I don’t care

      I mean, maybe he’s just happy on his own for now? It’s ok to have moments of doubt here and there (re: “staring at my PC” , “did it do it right”) but just because they broke up with their gf and went back to their self improvement routine doesn’t automatically mean self sabotage and all that.

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    10 days ago

    If they’re happier with their gym routine than they are with their girlfriend, she’s the wrong girlfriend. Anon did it right.

  • KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    11 days ago

    Fuck, I was kinda doing alright, making friends, getting out, part of a big kink/group sex community, then I met my current GF, I haven’t been to a sex party in months, I feel miserable 50% of the time, honestly most difficult person I’ve ever been with because of the way she sees life and relationships, wondering if I should break up with her.

    Only thing is I think I’m fooling myself Re how miserable I was

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      10 days ago

      You should definitely break up with her, you’re not on an emotional maturity level to be in any serious relationship. She should be set free to find someone grown.

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    10 days ago

    Breaking up wasn’t a bad idea. If he wasn’t invested in the relationship, he did her a favor.