• Steve Dice@sh.itjust.works
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    8 days ago

    Anon is depressed and self-sabotaged because he doesn’t think he’s worthy of love. Therapists should really advertise in 4chan.

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      8 days ago

      but this time I don’t care

      I mean, maybe he’s just happy on his own for now? It’s ok to have moments of doubt here and there (re: “staring at my PC” , “did it do it right”) but just because they broke up with their gf and went back to their self improvement routine doesn’t automatically mean self sabotage and all that.

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    8 days ago

    If they’re happier with their gym routine than they are with their girlfriend, she’s the wrong girlfriend. Anon did it right.

  • KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    8 days ago

    Fuck, I was kinda doing alright, making friends, getting out, part of a big kink/group sex community, then I met my current GF, I haven’t been to a sex party in months, I feel miserable 50% of the time, honestly most difficult person I’ve ever been with because of the way she sees life and relationships, wondering if I should break up with her.

    Only thing is I think I’m fooling myself Re how miserable I was

  • Sibshops@lemm.ee
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    7 days ago

    Breaking up wasn’t a bad idea. If he wasn’t invested in the relationship, he did her a favor.