• Steve Dice@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Anon is depressed and self-sabotaged because he doesn’t think he’s worthy of love. Therapists should really advertise in 4chan.

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      1 year ago

      but this time I don’t care

      I mean, maybe he’s just happy on his own for now? It’s ok to have moments of doubt here and there (re: “staring at my PC” , “did it do it right”) but just because they broke up with their gf and went back to their self improvement routine doesn’t automatically mean self sabotage and all that.

      • JokeDeity@lemm.eeBanned from community
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        1 year ago

        Wow, I had no idea this was well known by anyone but me and here’s two other people out in the wild who know it! Dope! Also love their song Because I’m Me.

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          I think it was a popular remix around 2010, because I get the reference too but don’t know why.

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          11 months ago

          I stuffed it up though. The line is “That boy needs therapy” not the boy. But it’s a 25 year old song. I can’t remember all things.

          • JokeDeity@lemm.eeBanned from community
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            11 months ago

            Ha! I don’t know shit about fuck. I thought it was maybe like a decade old. Honestly makes me love it so much more knowing it was even older. Now if only I could read 25 years ago and not have my dumb brain think of the 80s instead of the early 2000s…

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    1 year ago

    If they’re happier with their gym routine than they are with their girlfriend, she’s the wrong girlfriend. Anon did it right.

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    1 year ago

    Fuck, I was kinda doing alright, making friends, getting out, part of a big kink/group sex community, then I met my current GF, I haven’t been to a sex party in months, I feel miserable 50% of the time, honestly most difficult person I’ve ever been with because of the way she sees life and relationships, wondering if I should break up with her.

    Only thing is I think I’m fooling myself Re how miserable I was

    • JokeDeity@lemm.eeBanned from community
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      1 year ago

      You should definitely break up with her, you’re not on an emotional maturity level to be in any serious relationship. She should be set free to find someone grown.

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    1 year ago

    Breaking up wasn’t a bad idea. If he wasn’t invested in the relationship, he did her a favor.

  • JokeDeity@lemm.eeBanned from community
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    1 year ago

    Holy hell, 4chan is worse on the brain than lead.

  • Outwit1294@lemmy.today
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    9 months ago

    Anon was able to achieve in a single relationship what most take decades to realise. No one else can make you happy.