• Boozilla@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Don’t get married unless you are 10,000% sure. People invariably get sick of each other over time. It can feel like a prison sentence. Real life is not the movies.

    “Relationships take work”. Yes. Absolutely. But would you buy a car that costs $50k or more to dispose of after it’s broken down and unrepairable?

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      3 months ago

      It feels more like a deployment. There are mission objectives and your team is okay most of the time, but your time is never your own.

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      3 months ago

      People are different. Even if 10000% perfect matches, there will be issues in between. Just give sometime.

      Multiple solutions are there, like counselling. Understanding each other plays a big role. If you are parents, you gotta hell of responsibilities and less time for arguments.