I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.

For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.

For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.

  • PsychedSy@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I don’t like being touched in particular areas. Makes me super uncomfortable. I’m big on hugs and cuddling, tho.

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      1 year ago

      Yasss hugs and cuddling <33 I am generally okay with being touched anywhere (depending on the context of course) but one place - my bellybutton. I hate it. Idk what it is but it makes me feel ill

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        1 year ago

        I have dated women like that and get many, many conversations on belly button consent because it’s hard to resist the random poke (with a finger, mind).

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      1 year ago

      Didn’t know that was common, i always feel weird telling people because it’s like a hard no for me and sometimes people think i’m joking or something. Sucks, i really wish i could enjoy seeing other people’s tums and cool piercings.