• Addfwyn@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      She didn’t have kids already, but she wanted to have them in the future. I absolutely do not want kids, I even got a vasectomy in my early 20s.

      It’s not really an issue you can compromise on as a couple, so it was better to part amicably than pursue something with no future, for both of our sakes.

    • richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one
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      1 year ago

      I find the question weird.

      1. Maybe she didn’t have children but wanted them, that also qualifies as non-childfree.
      2. Why is inconceivable for you not wanting kids and not wanting to be with someone who does?