• Emanuel@lemmy.eco.br
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    7 months ago

    Got to wonder how the older kid feels about their father in this scenario. Anyway, that’s fucked up

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      Yeah. We all feel this way at work but they were engaged prior to her joining and legally speaking it’s above board and according to her “he wasn’t attracted to her until she was 18”. Yeah sure.

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        Sure. He just hanged out around her for three years and then decided she was hot. Not sus at all for someone who had to be in their forties to hang out around a teenager

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          It was at a Judo class so it wasn’t specifically in a place where he was hanging around teenagers. He just found one to target there. Also you guys know this before like most of my workplace, shebtold one person who she trusted who told me cause she trusts this person cause they’re about equally close as with me but I said something when she got engaged to this creep. For work stuff we’ve been really good co-conspirators and when she figured out that doing culinary school just got you shit gigs she radicalized job wise fast but om this angle it’s rough.

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            I get it, people are multifaceted. I know some people with similar stories and all this does is concern me about how we live in a society (™) that condones pedophilia and such. It’s even more concerning when you take into account that groomers tend to be the best teachers of mental gymnastics and, from what I gathered, this coworker of yours is a comrade, and we all know that it’s not good for us to be versed on mental gymnastics.

            Anyway, thanks for sharing. I wanted something to get angry at tonight

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              Burgeoning comrade at beat, she just got the first dose of 2 years of full time work not being rewarding. Wouldn’t go full comrade, but could get there. I’m grooming in the good way