ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 3 months agoWhen online on shady websites, hide IP, don't use real name, don't use real details, don't ever click on links directly, even if you fully trust them. Internet never forgets and can get slippery fast.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down18
arrow-up1-6arrow-down1message-squareWhen online on shady websites, hide IP, don't use real name, don't use real details, don't ever click on links directly, even if you fully trust them. Internet never forgets and can get slippery fast.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 3 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 3 months agoWhen becoming sexually active when young - your first can form your kinks and expectations. I had those problems. It's best with some1 respects your privacy, self, and worth.message-squaremessage-square2fedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down18
arrow-up1-6arrow-down1message-squareWhen becoming sexually active when young - your first can form your kinks and expectations. I had those problems. It's best with some1 respects your privacy, self, and worth.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 3 months agomessage-square2fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 3 months agoSometimes what money can't buy can actually be very valuable yet free. Dont take it for granted.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down16
arrow-up1-3arrow-down1message-squareSometimes what money can't buy can actually be very valuable yet free. Dont take it for granted.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 3 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · edit-23 months agoI'd you live with roommates, and if you ever hear buzzing like a trimmer etc in shower, and when they come out they aren't shaved or trimmed, don't ask/tell them anything about what you heard.message-squaremessage-square5fedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down114
arrow-up1-10arrow-down1message-squareI'd you live with roommates, and if you ever hear buzzing like a trimmer etc in shower, and when they come out they aren't shaved or trimmed, don't ask/tell them anything about what you heard.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · edit-23 months agomessage-square5fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agoBeauty is very subjective and depends on context. If you don't see it in something at a given moment, maybe it needs a different context.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down12
arrow-up12arrow-down1message-squareBeauty is very subjective and depends on context. If you don't see it in something at a given moment, maybe it needs a different context.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agoIntelligence has many forms. Only some are measured in school. Some out in the world. Some at home. Some by ourselves.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down13
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareIntelligence has many forms. Only some are measured in school. Some out in the world. Some at home. Some by ourselves.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agoEverybody has a right to win. When you don't, it was just someone else's turn. Learn from them and be happy for them especially if they are a friend. There's plenty of room and time for your turn.message-squaremessage-square2fedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down13
arrow-up10arrow-down1message-squareEverybody has a right to win. When you don't, it was just someone else's turn. Learn from them and be happy for them especially if they are a friend. There's plenty of room and time for your turn.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agomessage-square2fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agoI've come to believe that karma is less about positives and negatives and more about the universe forcing us to learn anything we refuse to understandmessage-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down12
arrow-up10arrow-down1message-squareI've come to believe that karma is less about positives and negatives and more about the universe forcing us to learn anything we refuse to understandItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 4 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 8 months agotaking care of you when you were a newborn was EXHAUSTING! yet satisfying and lovely. You were wanted way before we knew we were going to have you. We love you so much!message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up16arrow-down13
arrow-up13arrow-down1message-squaretaking care of you when you were a newborn was EXHAUSTING! yet satisfying and lovely. You were wanted way before we knew we were going to have you. We love you so much!ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 8 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 8 months agoAlways try to understand other's situation. But also make sure youre not putting yourself in danger or suppressing your own emotions for trivial reasons..message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down10
arrow-up15arrow-down1message-squareAlways try to understand other's situation. But also make sure youre not putting yourself in danger or suppressing your own emotions for trivial reasons..ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 8 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 8 months agoEven if one didn't cause a damage intentionally, they must try to help fix it intentionally. But everyone involved must make sure that the blame is not placed on them wrongfully.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down12
arrow-up1-1arrow-down1message-squareEven if one didn't cause a damage intentionally, they must try to help fix it intentionally. But everyone involved must make sure that the blame is not placed on them wrongfully.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 8 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · edit-29 months agospend time with people dven if they seem awkward or rude at first. Even if it doesn't change your opinion, it at least humanizes them to you. we are not experts at judging character in an instant.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down14
arrow-up1-3arrow-down1message-squarespend time with people dven if they seem awkward or rude at first. Even if it doesn't change your opinion, it at least humanizes them to you. we are not experts at judging character in an instant.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · edit-29 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · edit-29 months agoWhen youre overwhelmed with tasks, scale down. Set aside anything that seems pressuring unless it is medically or legally important. Even things from work or school. Ease yourself, then pick up slow.message-squaremessage-square3fedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down12
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareWhen youre overwhelmed with tasks, scale down. Set aside anything that seems pressuring unless it is medically or legally important. Even things from work or school. Ease yourself, then pick up slow.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · edit-29 months agomessage-square3fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoWhen angry, listen to calmer people. Try to go in the opposite direction of anger. Do not alienate anyone who is trying to deescalate. Opposing views are ok. Goal is to calm down and take action.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up121arrow-down11
arrow-up120arrow-down1message-squareWhen angry, listen to calmer people. Try to go in the opposite direction of anger. Do not alienate anyone who is trying to deescalate. Opposing views are ok. Goal is to calm down and take action.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoGender inequality (bad) has existed for so long that we may not recognize when it is taking place. Be on the lookout for it no matter what gender you end up being, and stand up for what is right.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down10
arrow-up12arrow-down1message-squareGender inequality (bad) has existed for so long that we may not recognize when it is taking place. Be on the lookout for it no matter what gender you end up being, and stand up for what is right.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoFigure out what work is required the most in society and is fairly valued - position yourself to be able to do that work as a fallback job at least.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareFigure out what work is required the most in society and is fairly valued - position yourself to be able to do that work as a fallback job at least.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoLearn how money works in your age. Old advice and wisdom can be outdated but be sure to check on it because some of it is time tested and economic history rhymes in time.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareLearn how money works in your age. Old advice and wisdom can be outdated but be sure to check on it because some of it is time tested and economic history rhymes in time.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoMost of the world is run by people considered "average". Being average is underappreciated. Being average is sufficient and is worth loving. Anything more is a bonus.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareMost of the world is run by people considered "average". Being average is underappreciated. Being average is sufficient and is worth loving. Anything more is a bonus.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoAlways try to find the right tool for each job. Observe a professional and/or take classes before you convince yourself that you know how to do it.message-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareAlways try to find the right tool for each job. Observe a professional and/or take classes before you convince yourself that you know how to do it.ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
ItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agoTry to avoid proxy feelings because they cause you to have false feelings sometiems. Always only consider first hand information first and then external information a little less.plus-squaremessage-squaremessage-square0fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareTry to avoid proxy feelings because they cause you to have false feelings sometiems. Always only consider first hand information first and then external information a little less.plus-squareItsMeForRealNow@lemmy.worldM · 9 months agomessage-square0fedilink
