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1 year ago@sharpsphere lmk if you find out because I’m having the same problem
Any neo-pronouns or he/him if you must.
Not new, I’ve just had bad luck with main instance picking.
Boosts are seldom a reflection of what I think of the person posting (because I don’t check unless I see red flags), but usually a reflection of what I think of the post itself.
I block random people who tag me out of nowhere (but replies are usually fine).
@sharpsphere lmk if you find out because I’m having the same problem
@Lemmeenym as someone in both categories, I think it matters less when you become disabled and more when you accept it. The disabilities I gained over time have been much easier for me to accept and accommodate because I was already disabled, but the years spent not knowing I was disabled at birth and trying to assimilate in abled society were hell. The actual disabilities would have been fine had I known and been accommodated, just like they’re fine now