Does anyone else find absolute silence difficult to deal with? In particular difficult to sleep in complete silence?

I think it started from a young age, being obsessed with music. Falling asleep with music.

As an adult, I still struggle with this and need some form of audio to drift off, be it music or something else.

More recently, I find stand-up comedy works best - it’s light-hearted and doesn’t require too much thought.

  • watson387@sopuli.xyz
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    I have tinnitus, so absolute silence is never enjoyable for me. Music works extremely well; I fall asleep with the tv on.

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      When I read the title of the post, I immediately wondered if anybody else with tinnitus had commented yet.

      “Silence” sounds amazing, would love to try it some time 😅

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      I Think I might too. Need to get checked. Always a low humming. Sometimes high pitch ringing. But I meant more of not being able to settle my mind.

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    As a teen, I needed complete silence/darkness to sleep well. Then I met my now-wife, who needed a TV on to sleep well.
    It took a while, but we eventually compromised on a fan for background noise.

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    I have tinnitus. Had it my whole life. I live with a fan running in every room except the kitchen and bathroom. They are on 24/7 365. The silence literally makes my head feel like it’s about to pop

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    I must have earplugs and an eyemask to sleep. Always wanted pitch black and complete silence since I was a child.

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    I would love absolute silence. I got Tinnitus in my right ear 24/7/365… It will probably never disappear… And I also sleep with a CPAP which makes annoying sounds when sleeping. So I would absolute silence.

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    Silence isn’t a thing.

    Sound of leaves rustling, the ocean, or even gentle wind? I sleep, no problem

    A house quietly creaking and my blood flowing?

    I’ve put on music or Netflix since childhood

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    Buy yourself a white noise machine. I’ve been using one for almost 10 years, it’s helped my sleep routine immensely. I prefer it to something with talking because the fluctuations of something like comedy would disrupt me. Also, I think that concentrating on something like comedy makes me want to watch it and I would woke up.

    The next thing is an eye mask. Even if your room is mostly dark, I’ve found it helps me to stay asleep.

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    More the opposite. I can’t stand all the noise. Especially during spring & summer when you have to open your window during the night.

  • The only time I ever would’ve preferred silence to some background noise was when I was at a scout camp along the banks of a river and the cacophony of frogs and crickets at night was super fucking loud. I barely slept the whole time I was there.

    Other than that, I always put on some kind of ambient sounds or yoga music.

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    Try a fan. And this one’s weird, but I have an analog clock in my room and the rhythmic ticking helps me sleep.

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      I know were you are coming from and I know a few people who have a clock in the room and sleep… but I just can’t… the rhythmic ticking drives me crazy haha

      podcast or audio books are my go to - sometimes I’m stuck on the same chapter for weeks

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        I can’t handle the constant having to rewind and going wait did I already listen to this last night? that happens if I listen to podcasts or audiobooks to sleep.

        Maybe I should just find a podcast I don’t care about actually hearing everything in that I could use for sleep.